Comments on: Long Distance Anxiety http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: Just A Thought http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/#comment-16132 Just A Thought Thu, 08 Jan 2009 18:23:59 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=983#comment-16132 @ blaze: Seriously? His life plans didn't involve her, so I mean should she really just uproot and dude is not talking marriage? (Or maybe he is, I dunno). It just seems to me that women are more likely to cancel everything and just follow a man somewhere on the slightest possibility that they will be together (and yes, I did alter my plans to fit a man's). I'm not saying that a woman shouldn't compromise to be with the person they want to be with, but I think as a gender, we are too quick to follow behind some dude who would not do the same for us. @ devoted: My comment to blaze is not in any way a suggestion or a response to your situation, but more the fact of 3 women I know who are making big changes to their plans for men - none of whom have made any serious steps toward marriage. @ blaze:

Seriously? His life plans didn’t involve her, so I mean should she really just uproot and dude is not talking marriage? (Or maybe he is, I dunno).

It just seems to me that women are more likely to cancel everything and just follow a man somewhere on the slightest possibility that they will be together (and yes, I did alter my plans to fit a man’s). I’m not saying that a woman shouldn’t compromise to be with the person they want to be with, but I think as a gender, we are too quick to follow behind some dude who would not do the same for us.

@ devoted:

My comment to blaze is not in any way a suggestion or a response to your situation, but more the fact of 3 women I know who are making big changes to their plans for men – none of whom have made any serious steps toward marriage.

]]> By: blaze http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/#comment-16131 blaze Thu, 08 Jan 2009 16:21:45 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=983#comment-16131 Devote- Would you ever consider leaving with him for the year? Devote-
Would you ever consider leaving with him for the year?

]]> By: devoted1 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/#comment-16130 devoted1 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 03:06:03 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=983#comment-16130 My beau will be going over seas in the coming months for a year to teach and I am terrified. This man is soo wonderful and I really hate the thought that I may lose him because of this temporary separation. I'm more than willing to give it a try because I love him, but I'm unsure if expecting success is wise. I also have a problem with the fact that everytime I find a man whom I really care a lot about and could potentially see a future with they are always leaving to go somewhere else. This has happened to me 3 times before, wth! My beau will be going over seas in the coming months for a year to teach and I am terrified. This man is soo wonderful and I really hate the thought that I may lose him because of this temporary separation. I’m more than willing to give it a try because I love him, but I’m unsure if expecting success is wise. I also have a problem with the fact that everytime I find a man whom I really care a lot about and could potentially see a future with they are always leaving to go somewhere else. This has happened to me 3 times before, wth!

]]> By: KibaBadGirl http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/#comment-16129 KibaBadGirl Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:50:19 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=983#comment-16129 Great advice FG. I am currently in a long distance relationship and have been for 4 years now. We make time everyday to talk on the phone and we see each other every other weekend. Long distance love is not for everyone. It works for us because it's genuine, also, the love and respect we share for each other is mutual. I can only say to anyone thinking about being in a long distance relationship to take time and make sure it's what you want. Great advice FG. I am currently in a long distance relationship and have been for 4 years now. We make time everyday to talk on the phone and we see each other every other weekend. Long distance love is not for everyone. It works for us because it’s genuine, also, the love and respect we share for each other is mutual. I can only say to anyone thinking about being in a long distance relationship to take time and make sure it’s what you want.

]]> By: artrinity http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2009/01/long-distance-anxiety/#comment-16128 artrinity Thu, 08 Jan 2009 00:44:52 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/?p=983#comment-16128 very true...i was in a long distance relationship for 2 years...it was hard..we lived 4.5 hours away and we made it work...either he would come to see me or vise versa...we would even meet halfway...needless to say i moved to houston...and we were good for a while...are we together no...are we still friends yes...but we realized that neither one of us was really ready for a long term commitment.. what am i trying to say...fly guy is right, communication is key...have some type of plan, and make sure you know how each one of you really feels BEFORE you or him makes that move... very true…i was in a long distance relationship for 2 years…it was hard..we lived 4.5 hours away and we made it work…either he would come to see me or vise versa…we would even meet halfway…needless to say i moved to houston…and we were good for a while…are we together no…are we still friends yes…but we realized that neither one of us was really ready for a long term commitment..
what am i trying to say…fly guy is right, communication is key…have some type of plan, and make sure you know how each one of you really feels BEFORE you or him makes that move…

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