Is She Playing Me?Jan 14th, 2009 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Letters
Dear Fly Guy,
I’ve been reading your articles and they have all been very helpful. I do have a question for you though. Should I find it suspicious if the woman I am dating is never available on the weekends, and is constantly making plans without me? I mean let’s say I ask, “Hey what are you doing this weekend?” and she says “Oh I made some plans with my friends.” So then I say, “Alright, let’s do something the next weekend.” Once again she says, “Oh I made plans for that weekend too.” My question to you is why would she be making so many plans without me? Is she avoiding hanging out with me? Thanks for any help you can provide.
There’s no easy way to say this, so I guess I should just come out right out with it … You are not in a relationship with that woman. From the looks of things, it doesn’t appear that she has any real interest in the two of you actually being a couple. Listen; a person that never pursues quality time with their significant other is either (a) not interested, (b) seeing someone else, or (c) Shaquille O’Neal … which is strangely a combination of both a and b. Whatever the actual reason behind her actions, the fact still remains that you need to move on … immediately. So from this point forward, don’t even think about asking her out. Your time and energy are best spent on someone willing to equally invest in the advancement of the relationship. I hope that helps.
The Fly Guy
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