I’m not sure when you’re going to read this. But whenever your eyes meet the words currently pouring from my heart, my sincerest hope is that you feel the passion by which they were written. There is but so many ways that I can verbalize how much I love you … and God knows that I’ve tried them all.

I ran across this piece, and wanted to share. In my opinion, the greatest gift that anyone can ever give themselves is an honest self analysis. The writer here uses that gift to perfection by reflecting back over the past year of her life and finding peace in the things that went both right and wrong. I’m feeling this.

I apologize for being slow on posting the last few days. Things have just been pretty hectic. In case you didn’t know, when I’m not writing love advice, I’m normally on the road orchestrating cover shoots for Rolling Out Magazine as their entertainment editor. This week was no different as I was in LA working on this Valentine special with “House of Payne” star Lance Gross and model/actress Eva Marcille.

There’s no denying it anymore. You want to be with her. Her grace, her class, her style … everything about this woman speaks to your better sensibilities. In your heart, you believe that she’s a rare find–a woman so special that you can’t risk letting her slip away. The only thing that’s standing in your way is her belief that you’re just like every other guy that’s out to love, and then eventually leave her.

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been searching for answers, and don’t know who else to turn to. During a relationship six years ago, my boyfriend at the time cheated on me, and as a result, I contracted HIV. For a long time, I felt like my life was over, but have since learned to make the most of things. But here’s my problem.

Our relationship used to be great. But now … let’s just say that things haven’t been right between us for quite some time. All we do is argue, and I’m pretty sure that neither one of us wants to live our life this way. So I guess we’re at a crossroads, where a decision must be made. Are we still in this thing together? Or is it time for us to officially say goodbye? The choice is yours.

I love you. At some point, we all dream of having those three words lavished upon us by a significant other. But what happens when you start dating someone that drops the “L” bomb on you a little too soon? If faced with such an unfortunate predicament, then immediately resort to the following “5 Ways To Avoid Saying I Love You.”

I’ve been sitting here for the past 30 minutes trying to remember the last time I approached a woman using a pick up line. The concept seems so foreign to me at this stage of my life. Long gone are the wild college days where I’d seemingly bump into a new “most beautiful woman” every three days … I was a trip.

So here’s the scenario: You meet a woman, think she’s wonderful, and subsequently work to pursue something meaningful with her. And by all accounts, things are going really well between the two of you. She’s smart, funny, goal-oriented, grounded … basically any and everything that you could possibly hope for in a mate. There’s just one small detail that you can’t seem to get beyond…

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been reading your articles and they have all been very helpful. I do have a question for you though. Should I find it suspicious if the woman I am dating is never available on the weekends, and is constantly making plans without me?