It’s amazing how easy it is for us to point out the faults in others. And judging from the progression of yesterday’s discussion, I think we all (or at least some of us) secretly find pleasure in lashing out at people from our past. But what if the tables were turned?

There’s a word that frequently gets tossed about (particularly when it comes to love and relationships) without out any real explanation for what it actually means. That word is (drum roll please) … crazy. We’ve all used it:

Christmas is rapidly approaching, and you still have no clue what to get your significant other. There’s no need to get anxious though, as I’ve designed a nice guide to direct you through this tedious process.

As the chief of the Behavior Police Department, I felt compelled to release this warning to any man currently engaged in a serious relationship. During my tenure as the head of BPD, relationship crimes in our community have been reduced by a whopping 47%. With that being said, I can only hope that you take heed to the following warning so our streets can continue to be safe.

I’m back with another edition of Audio Love. This week, Anthony Hamilton and Jamie Foxx make impressive entrances onto our Fly List, while Brandy gets a much deserved encore. The lyrics and passion emoted through each song deserves a priority placement in your weekend love song rotation. Enjoy.

Periodically, I’m going to share with you some red flag behavior that should make you think twice about diving into deeper relational waters with a potential significant other. Let’s call this section “The Behavior Police.” First up, we have a disturbing pattern of behavior that I’ve seen in some men (I was actually guilty of this offense once upon a time.)

I ran across two pieces that I wanted to share. It’s been a while since I’ve featured any poetry on the site, but when I read the following, they reminded me of the true beauty of expression. I hope you enjoy.

This piece is dedicated to every woman who takes Beyonce’s latest single “Single Ladies” literally. Please understand that her world does not provide a true depiction of every day life, so you have to view her songs purely for what they are … entertainment only.

I have a confession to make. As a guy, playing the field can be a lot of fun. The unbalanced male-to-female ratio plays a huge role in such a mindset. But as maturity sets in, real men begin to realize that fooling around has its moments, but nothing can surpass the joys of being in a serious relationship.