Guest Feature: An Exploration Of Male Whoredom
Nov 27th, 2008 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Features
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Give Me Body – An Exploration Of Accidental Male Whoredom
Submitted by: OnDaReal
My body, your body, his body, her body … Is that what it all comes down to? If you ask the question, “What are the most important aspects of a potential partner,” what do you get? Oftentimes you’ll get a politically correct answer that involves personality, understanding, loyalty, blah, blah, blah. Nobody wants to answer that question with “I’m looking for a six-pack and a set of guns,” or “A fat ass and thick thighs.” Somehow those responses come off as a tad bit shallow and superficial. Are they though? That’s my question. How much weight do you give to physical appearance, and is your justification different based on the potential of the relationship?
Case in point:
I was raised in the northeast. Through high school and college I was a student-athlete. While I was pretty good on the football field, I never spent a lot of time in the weight room. As a result, I wasn’t a “fat” guy, but was definitely the “big” outside linebacker type. I can’t say I’ve always pulled the flyest woman in the spot, but I never had any huge problems with women either. Did I have women throw themselves at me? No. I’m not sure I could have been a male whore if I wanted to. Anyway, a funny thing happened about a year ago – I moved to Miami. (side note: Moving to Miami – Black folks, don’t do it to yourselves) Upon arrival, I recognized I had to find something to do with my time. People don’t speak, it’s entirely unfriendly, and it can get boring rather quickly. So I did what everyone seemed to be doing. I hit the gym. Not having much else to do at the time, I had several hours each evening I could spend at the gym, and that’s exactly what I did.
After a year, the results are in and it’s been a life changing experience. The increased energy, the health benefits, the ease in purchasing new clothes – it’s all true. The one thing I totally underestimated though was the impact that your body has on your potential relationships. In Miami, lots of people work hard on their bodies, and it can be difficult to notice the change in yourself when you’re in that environment. However, I took a trip back up north a little while back and still haven’t gotten over it. To say that the potential existed to be a complete male whore would be putting it lightly.
Is this really all that’s to it? A six-pack and some muscles and you’re in? It sure seemed that way. I got more looks, conversation, and “opportunity” than I’d ever had before in my life. What was even more surprising was that although the women were really tight, the bar for entry was significantly lower. It really wasn’t about my education, career, or personality. It also wasn’t necessarily about potential for the future. This was raw (“let’s get up during your trip”) lust, and it was also evident that while getting up I could “get it.” Now how much I indulged in my accidental male whoredom is another story… Nonetheless, my experience left me questioning women and their rationale. Will women compromise their standards just because of a guy’s body? And are you more likely to let a guy “get it” if you’re caught up in how fine he is? Have you ever given it up to a guy just because you literally “wanted his body”? Guys have you ever been in a situation where a woman is throwing herself at you because of your body? Give up the goods!
(If you would like to be considered as a guest columnist on the Fly Guy Chronicles, email me at flyguychronicles@gmail.com)
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