FG, I hate women that smoke too. Just cigarettes though. I don’t mind if we spark one…lol.

My deal breaker is bad toes. I know its shallow, but what can I say.

@tubbs

hilarious

I’m just saying Chelsea. You can never blame me for not being honest. You didn’t list yours thoug.

A deal breaker for me is bad breath! I do not want my eyebrows singed everytime you talk. More coming soon lmao.

@Nishadiva,

Yeah that would do it. I dated this one chick that no matter what she tried her breath was still bad. I believe she had gingivitis…lol

@tubbs

yeah you are always honest. never disputed that one

@tubbs

Yes! LOL bad breath will always be a deal breaker.

Smoking is definitely on there as well as any form of drug abuse. Bad hygiene of any kind: (breath, BO, etc). Horrible sex is definitely on there. I just can’t. Most importantly, any form of disrespect toward me, his mother, women in general is a dealbreaker.

Bad sex etiquette!!! My best friend dated a guy who liked to bit her and baby talk, etc.

Let’s just say he still calls and she hits ignore.

I am with Reina!!! No odors of any kind.

I meant to say bite…my bad

So if a guy has bad sex, how do you tell him that’s the reason that you can’t go on? I’m always curious when I hear women say that?

@Nishadiva,

Her man was say “goo goo ga ga?” LMAO…get the eff outa here!!!

Well, Nishadiva, biting isn’t ALWAYS bad. Just lets me know that he’s, you know, enjoying himself. A bruise isn’t a horrible thing. It’s a badge of honor. LOL

The baby talk, though? Nope. I hate being called cute. I’m a grown a*s woman, man.

@ reina

Oh no mama biting is not bad but too hard in sensitive places (I’ll leave it at that lol)is not a good look. If you in pain ma? then he has to go lol.

@ Tubbs

She did not tell him she just ignores his calls lol. I mean if there is a solid foundation and the sex is bad…you haev to become a trainer and prepare him for the match lol.

@daveyboy

Lol yea! no b.s.

Oh no mama biting is not bad but too hard in sensitive places (I’ll leave it at that lol)is not a good look

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

“You scratched my uterus!! You bastard!!!

ROTFL!!!!!

This may sound weird and kinda piggy backs off Reina…

but I hate when dudes describe me as ’sexy’ or ‘fine’ or ‘cute’…they can’t even approach me with that. You have to give me a REAL compliment if you want to interact with me. Is that harsh?

I have so many, it is ridiculous.But overall personal upkeep plays a big part in first impressions and the ability to hold a descent conversation while using actual words that can be found in Webster.

@Chelsea

I agree with you there, nothing wrong with a compliment but don’t use that as your only source of holding a comversation

@Chelsea, no that’s not harsh at all

@Lyricalluv, so shawty isn’t in Webster?

@ Tubbs

HECK NO !!! lmao

I mean you don’t HAVE to compliment me in order to talk to me (but if you tryna get the digits you BETTER be complimenting me)…however if you gonna compliment me, then make it a real one. Grown women are beautiful and gorgeous, breath-taking or exquiste…

Not “Shawty, you HELLA fine!”

lmao…

@ Tubbs

Well, a guy should be able to tell if I’m not enjoying it, right? I’m not into faking. I have once told a dude to just get off me, or if I’m being nice, hop on top and hurry it up. And it depends on why it was bad. If it was just too small, I’ll find another reason to tell him why it’s ending. If he was gnawing at my nip, well…I’m just going to tell him so.

I don’t have too many deal breakers, I don’t think.

1. You have to have a job. Period.
2. You have to have your own place to live. Period.
3. No contacts, belly rings, or tattoos above or below your navel. Zesty ass.
4. You cannot have more children than me and if you are not supporting your child then buh bye.
5. You need to have goals and aspirations.

Tubbs I cant stand you and men with this feet thing. What the hell? So a woman can be gorgeous but have ugly toes and you won’t consider a relationship with her? That is stupid. And I was starting to like you…smh.

“Grown women are beautiful and gorgeous, breath-taking or exquiste…

Not “Shawty, you HELLA fine!”

Amen. No one over age 16 should be saying that to ANY female anyways.

@ Chelsea & Lyrical

Exactly! I am NOT your “sexy redbone”, “bust it baby”, “cutty buddy”, etc. I will not give you any “good good” or “the business.”

Talk to me like an adult.

@Ms. Miss,

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I can change.LOL. Seriously though, I think that when men say that, we are speaking to toe ailments that can be fixed. I won’t judge you if you have 7 toes on each foot. At least I don’t think…

@Tubbs aka Phillip Michael Thomas

You are reminding me of Eddie Murphy in Boomerang.

ugggghhh..

Im from Florida and that damn ‘bust-it baby’ thing is RIDICULOUS here! What real woman is ok with being that? To each his own, but damn. That mess SOUNDS disrespectful!

@ reina

faking it is bad for you and makes him think he is the man lol. Oh no I am quick to say oh no this is not good, I am done get off of me. Gnawing on the chi-chi’s are a fast ticket to get the hell outta here. lmao

I’m gonna start faking my orgasms with women.

@chelsea

I live in maryland and you should see all the women who are proud to be called a “bust it baby” when did that become attractive?

@tubbs

LOL…One of my close guy friends will tell a woman quick that her “stuff” is no good. Tell me how that works for a guy? I just laugh at his stories.

Secretly I don’t mind being called a bust it baby. I’m proud of my explots in the bedroom, and if we both agree that we aren’t trying to settle down, then what’s the harm?

I think me and my best friend probably would have dated and been MARRIED by now if I had ‘pretty feet’ go figure. That mess is absurd. I aint asking NO ONE to pop a tootsie in their mouth I don’t have bunions, corns, or stinky feet and keep my toes painted. Another deal breaker for me has been horrible sex. If you can’t do ANYTHING right then you are about as useful to me as two legged stool.

It really does sound disrespectful, I hate that song,Now they have a song called Cut buddy and I’m a dog, some young females that sing it and actually like it obviously have no clue or no class AT ALL.

@nishadiva

hell if I know…but if me and a young man are in a “friends with benefits” type situation, then i BET NOT NEVER hear him refer to me as anything similar to a bust-it baby! Cuz that ish will be IMMEDIATELY cut off…have some respect for the woman that’s allowing you to be intimate with her!

@ Mz. Chief’s comment

**grabs my popcorn and awaits the answer**

@ Nisha & Chelsea

And I want to smack those girls. HARD. There is nothing complimentary or respectful about being referred to as such. I blame such females because they’re part of the reason when a real woman asserts herself, she’s a b or thinking too highly of herself. We just start a movement. “Slap A Dumb Broad”

Tubbs i’ve always wanted to say during sex ‘Oh you’re totally nailing me, awesome’ without laughing.

@Mz. Cheif

I understand the situation (hell I’ve BEEN in the situation), but the term? Not one of my faves…just my opinion

@ Mz. Chief

Ohhhhhh no! I mean that’s degrading…I mean you are happy a guy can bust his nuts on/in you because you do your thing? Dude is pretty much saying that is your purpose. I mean I have no complaints either but I wish a brotha would call me his bust it baby!

i also HATE the way Plies says it..the way he draaaaaags it out makes me wanna end my misery..

but I’m a huge fan tho…

Mz.Cheif I don’t like the comment because I am a grown woman. That term is nothing but sexual and sleazy to me. If you think that commenting me about sexual abilities that you have never experienced with get you the chance to experience them is going to work you have the same brain cell count as a snail.

@daveyboy

you a mess…popcorn? hilarious

Reina i’m down for the movement. lets go get shirts made.

all I’m saying is that there are plenty of women who refer to men as their dick on the side, or their dick in a glass case. Are we offended because he made it a song?

@Reina
Right on the money operation “Slap a dumb broad” now in effect. I see one right now, lmao

@reina and Chelsea

I am with it…we need to start the movement ASAP. lmao.

I am sorry I am not a bust it baby…If you have the pleasure of being intimate with me then act accordingly not like a little boy who just got his first taste

@ Mz. Chief:

To each her own. I’m not ashamed of any of my bedroom exploits. Not a one. But this”I jus gave her a nickname, it’s wet-wet,
Cause when we finish, she mess up all my bed set” I…just can’t.

Mz.Cheif I don’t agree with those comments either. To me it’s a matter of class. I wouldn’t refer to my significant other as merely an object of sexual desire.

@ Tubbs, no how the hell are you going to pull that off???

@Mz Chief

In our female minds we know we have a dick in a glass, but we do not sing about it,brag about it,or degrade men over it.Some men are just happy to even be in the glass and hope you break it.

@Mz chief

How old are you?
Because in all my 24 yrs I have never associated any man I was intimate with by those terms…

is this thing on? because I am confused Lmao

why would you want to be called such a name

mz.cheif why are you talking in 3rd person? lol

i think im offended becuz the term is ridiculous…i dont refer to my FWB as dick on the side either…even when im talking to my girls…i respect the relationship we have even if its just sexual…

and oh yes…I want a tshirt, a mug, a keychain, a bumper sticker, a sweatband and some pens!! lmao..

We need to have meetings on how to save these broads!

I’m 26. And I think that we all think it. It’s just about whether we say it out loud. That’s all I’m saying.

@ Mz. Chief:

I don’t want to come off as you’re being attacked. I’m just curious as to how that’s complimentary. I’m 28, and I’ll say I am guilty of dancing to “Get Low” in my early 20s. *hangs head in shame* Don’t judge me!

no mz cheif. i don’t think it either. i say any and everything on my mind.

I’ve never had a man call me that, but when I think about the things that me and some of my girls have said about men, and how he’s only good for one thing, then i can’t really be mad.

Maybe I’m just old fashioned but you should never kiss and tell,nor you should label your male and female “friends”

Wait. You’re 26? Oh. We need to talk.

He’s a grown man, and I’m pretty certain he doesn’t want to be referred to as just a dick. It’s marvelous and erthang, but he’s more than that. (Please note that Reina is single and all this is occuring in her head. LOL) Seriously, I can’t think of a male that I know that would be okay with that.

@lyricalluv…I agree
@Ms. Miss Me too!

Mz. Chief…I dont want you to think I am attacking you either I just want to know why? But you have explained. I mean I know me and my friends and I dont say stuff like that. I mean everyone is diff.

true..we all say some derogatory things about the people who may be servicing us in the bedroom, but all that extra making songs and crap is just rubbing me the wrong way!

A man is not good for one thing. I mean maybe that is why you dont mind being a bust it baby (you feel you are only good for one thing?) I just dont get it.

Ms. Chief

You should consider yourself more then a bust it baby!

i LOVE how these convos always make a turn to the comlete left from the original post! loves it!

haha reina was p-popping

@ Ms. Miss:

SHHH! I have put that behind me. *deletes Low by Flo-Rida from her IPOD*

To the women of this site and beyond. I am not your sex toy. I am a man. A man with bronzed skin, a snazzy warbrobe, curly hair, and amusing stories about my life on top for about 5 years in the 80s. But I am a man with so much more to offer than my satisfying loins . Respect me as such. Thank you

I hope you guys are wearing a seat belt with all of the twist and turns these conversations make…lol

another deal breaker for me, personally, are kids. One kid is fine (and that’s pushing it)…

I love children to death but I don’t have any. If you have more than one child, ESPECIALLY if they are with more than one person and no good reason as to why u are not with EITHER of the mothers (or why you had the children for that matter, besides that ‘you just got caught up’)…then what can you really do for me?

@Chelsea,

I’m the same way. I love kids, but I don’t want to date women with a lot of kids. One if the absolute max for me.

I agree Chelsea. As hypocritical as it sounds I don’t always like dating men with a child. I only have one child and you cannot have more than one. That is crazy. Most men I come across with a child has crazy drama ready to be stirred up once his child’s mother finds out that he is dating. I can’t bring all that negativity into a relationship. No way no how.

Another deal breaker for me which sound harsh, I can’t date you if you have some type of incurable disorder or sickness.

Tubbs don’t forget a snarky personality.

@Ms. Miss,

I happen to be terribly bow-legged. Is there no chance for us? ;-)

flips thru my woman-speak manual. What does snarky mean?

lol means sarcastic.

ohhh I see. No, you shouldn’t want a snarky man…lol

incurable disease…yeah thats big…

hmmm…and i have a thing against messed up teeth…my parents invested in braces to help better my life and if u a grown man, you should be interested in doing the same for yourself…lmao

Dealbreakers…

smokers
shorties
close-minded jerks
pretentios/know-it-alls
and no-ambition-having fools; I don’t care if you drive the UPS truck, but please tell me you have a plan for the rest of your life to improve yourself inside and out- don’t ever be “done” and settle!

those are the kind of dudes who need to stay awy from me :D

(sorry- I misspelled “pretentious”… I hate when I do that…)

Regarding children, it’s not so much the children as the mothers of the children. They’re always some form of drama, and they’re great alibis. “Where were you last night?” “Shaneka called and I had to rush Jr to the ER.”

Plus, I like attention. With children, I have to share. I don’t wanna!

oh…and how do you women feel about loaning men money?

if my dude asks me for any money within the first, oh, 6 months…then he can call it wrap!

Chelsea the last boyfriend I had 3 months into our relationship this fool told me to think about getting him a line on my cellphone plan and not to say no right away just to think about it. Before he could even finish his sentence I said no then had the nerve to get mad. Needless to say that relationship didn’t last long. i am anti relationship loans about 80% of the time.

@ Chelsea

I’ve never had that happen, but depending on the circumstances, I might help. Unfortunately, it would ruin my view of him, and the relationship would be done. This is kinda selfish, I think, but it’s honest. I’m attracted to men, and that would make him seem less. Like I said, though, never experienced it and it’d depend on the sitch.

Also, if a man doesn’t have the proper response when I get naked, it’s going to be done. Bow to me, dammit! I want one of those cartoon responses: jaw dropping, eye bucking, mouth drooling. None of this “Eh, you aight.”

I concur with the teeth, and I must add his vocabulary must consist of some SAT words. Like seriously.

exactly Reina, as a woman with no children of my own, i don’t have the demands that mothers and fathers do…so its hard for me to accept when you say “sorry babe, I gotta go take Lil Dante school shopping today…i cant hang you from the chandelier all afternoon boo”..

and i had an ex who used to STAY over his BM house and hit me with the excuses…I can’t do it. NO BABY MAMAS ALLOWED!! lmao…

Oh and another one. I was dating this guy for a while and decided to go to his place for the first time and went into his bedroom and he had more porn than the shelves at Walmart could hold. I don’t know if he robbed the Vivid Video warehouse or what but he had about 6 DVD towers full of movies and stacks everywhere and VHS tapes in towers and just piled up to the damn ceiling. Now I’m far from prude and have no probably with porn, I watch it too, but that was an obsession that I didn’t want to know about, ever. Looking at it, it was probably an addiction. Which is another thing I have absolutely NO tolerance for. Period.

as a man, I don’t like it when women ask me for money either. I always meet these women who have all of this drama where they just need to borrow something until next week. That gets on my nerves.

@Ms. Miss,

Yeah that’s kind of taking it too far on the porn. But do you have your own addictions? Would he say the same thing if he went into you closet and saw your clothes and shoes?

this broke fool asked me to loan him like $300 so he can get a flight home and see his fam…i loaned it to him and he had the nerve to call me when he got there and swear his MOM would send me the money, cuz he used his money to throw a party..lol. i told him to lose my number! that was after like 2 months…never again…lol

Hmmmm what is Ms. Miss’s addiction? Not clothes. Not shoes. Not decorating. I would have to say….HAIR. Sometimes I can get out of hand with hair care products. But I have that under control for the most part. It does not affect my interactions with other, my quality of life, or my job. I have never taken off work to wash my hair. I have never gone back and forth to the restroom to mositurize my hair a bazillion times. So there. LOL.

I would have never pegged you for a Pink Oil Moistirizer fiend.

@Chelsea, yeah dude was a total loser. Anytime you saw that your momma is going to pay someone back, then you already know what it is.

ok…we’re adults…if you can’t take care of your basic necessities then you dont need to be dating anybody.

My question to men when they start asking me to loan them money is ‘how the hell were u getting by before I came into your life?’

we all get into pinches, but damn you need $50 every week? And you short on the rent 2 months in a row? Come on now…I dont ask any man for money. This woman has her own…but I do expect contributions…that’s a whole nother post tho!

@tubbs

no…this fool said he used his ends to THROW A WELCOME HOME PARTY FOR HIMSELF..that’s the part that got me. I was like “b**ch ni**a WHERE MY CASH AT??!” lol…you throwing parties and whatnot, but ur mama is gon western union me my money! puh-leeze…

@chelsea
That was Lil dante/chandelier hanging just hilarious.I think that sometimes is it selfish to think that me not having children, but I see I’m not the only one that think it.It is a little challenging dating men with kids, my hat goes off to single mothers who try to date and take care of home.

damn buddy was a loser. I think that anyone who has the balls to ask that early on should make the red flags go up. At the same time, people need to start saying that they don’t have it.

Lmao at chelsea.

oh and Reina…

yes, my man needs to make me feel like I put all the video girls and porn stars to SHAME when I take my clothes off! This one guy I used to date made me lay down so he could stare and “take it all in”…never felt so gorgeous in my LIFE!! Need to call him…

@lyricalluv

dont feel bad…i know where u coming from…you dont have any kids so you can’t understand a man with them! And i dont have no desire for some snotty-nosed kid cutting into my time with his fine-a** daddy..lmao…j/p..

kinda

Deal breakers for me were women who weren’t good n bed. Women who addressed me as their “nigga”(I’m nobodies nigga)women who don’t want to experience culture, and women with emotional baggage.

Now me I smoke cigars(not black n miles,but the other ones) I smoke them at my cigar club,or if people are cool with em. But I told folks I’ve never got turned down by women bc I believe in just introducing myself or just starting conversations on what the hells going on where we’re at. Never fails

i have no time for the baby mama beef.

@blackfujones and Tubbs

I said my best male friend tells me stories about women who are bad in bed but what makes them bad?

Like seriously I always loved women who demanded to b treated like a woman (chivalry included). I treat women likÉ I treat my mom n grandmother. I used to find it funny when women would ask y I removed my hat indoors,and I’d look at em like I didn’t want my momma to jump out n pop me

@Nishadiva
A male friend of mine told me every woman is different, some can work what they have and some can’t,some try things and some don’t,and parts are different just like shoes, lmao

@lyricalluv

Thats too funny. He just says he will tell a girl her stuff is wack…he never explains lol. Thank you lmao.

@nishadiva,

I hate a lazy women in bed…especially when they’re on top. DO SOMETHING…this is the point when I’m supposed to be resting…lol. I hate I woman who use too much teeth orally. And hear me when I say this. I hate a woman who’s stretched out to the point where sex is pointless. I’m not bragging, but I’m not a “small” guy. So sleeping with you should never feel like I’m trying to throw a hot dog down a hallway. (I had to borrow that from you FG…lol). Also, I hate women who don’t clean themselves properly. Use some Summer’s Eve, Febreeze, or whatever. Just use something. I just don’t understand how they could use Lever 2000, but miss that 1 important body part.

Sorry…I blacked out for a minute

@tubbs

Lmao. too funny I am in tears.

Def. a deal breaker

Seriously. When I was in high school, there was this girl who had a reputation for being easy. The only problem though was that her stuff was rank. I thought people were exagerrating, so when I got her alone and got into it, I swear I almost passed out. I shouldn’t have to wear a gas mask when having sex.

@nisha
I dunno about tubbs
But I’m just a weee bit different. If I’m sexin a woman we both have to be willing to take sex to new n different places. So basically her just lying there waiting for me to hump her won’t cut it. I’ve actually got up n left situations like that. IMO if your gonna give up your sex to me then u gotta be willing to do it all just like I am. And if u aren’t we can only b friends bc its no need for me to waste my time on you

Umm for the record Ms. Miss DOES NOT AND WILL NEVER OWN OR USE PINK OIL MOISTURIZER it is crap. Boy you dont know how serious I am about my hair. Lol.

Chelsea I would have set that fool on FIRE. Period.

@Tubbs

Yes you did blackout, thats for the recap though, FEBREEZE ???????? I had a male friend male say to girl she need to use vinegar and shrink it a little, too much like a stretched sweater. I love my male friends YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST

Yes male friends are the best! too funny. Tubbs you are funny. I agree with you and blackfujones.

@ms. Miss
Pink lotion is not good lol.

black I agree for the most part. I can honestly say if it is just sex then I may get REAL lazy. especially if there is some, ummm, green involved.

Tubbs I remember this dude took off his pants once and I smelled cheese. Never ran so fast.

LMAO @ cheese. That is amazing

@tubbs. Man that happened to me n college. She was finer than all outdoors. Got in it after four strokes I literally lost my balance n got lost for 2 weeks n her stuff. Felt like tom hanks n castaway. Lol
@chelsea after awhile I didn’t mind women with children bc I was talking to Grown women who had lives before me so I never tripped. I always hated women with nasty azzz houses. Good lawd I never understood that. Now I’m not mr.clean but I’m not nasty

Cheese…no way

I’m sooooooooo with renia on the kid/attention thing. I’m an attention hog, spoiled and a little bit selfish at times, and I would be highly upset if we’re sitting on the couch watching a nice movie and you kids run out the room and stand in front of the t.v. to show you the latest dance soulja boy has taught them (really happened to my friend . . lol)

But I can’t stand

1. Man with more kids,and donors then me (I have two by one man)

2. Smokers

3. Bad Sex

4. Any one shorter then me (I’m only 5′2)

5. close-minded men

6. A grown man who talks like he is 16

7. no ambitions

I think that’s it. . . .lol

@ Lanyea,

If a man is shorter than you then he needs to join the lolipop guild, or submit his application to work at this chocolate factory that I’m hearing so much about.

@black,

yeah man. It f*cked with my head for a minute, but I realized that it wasn’t me. I don’t talk to her anymore, but if I ever need to hideout from the police, I know where I can camp out and they’ll never find me…lol

My tall friends are that way…I usually have not prob with this because I am 5′3…but if a man shorter approached me I would prob laugh.

and not like mozarella or cheddar we are talking melting parmesan.

I hate the most when some men walk around with another womens scent on them ALL DAY LONG!!!! (a co worker)Just nasty !!! I’m 2 key strokes from emailing him.Umm…evidence of what you did this morning or last night should be kept private

Now hold on,I used to sex a woman who always wanted me after I finished workin out,or when I came home from work(I think she liked my work attire)
@miss
I could never allow being lazy during sex. Hell I wouldn’t even sex anyone lazy bc I’d be disappointed.
(I think I’m the overly sexual person on the site. Sorry)lol

i never knew vagina could be that big…

@lyrical
He needs to keep a playa case in his car”includes soap/deodorant/toothpaste/mints/n condoms”

On a serious note imy number one dealbreaker is STD’s. I had a really decent female I was talkin to n somewhat messing with. She kept going back to her trifling guy n he ended up giving her herpes and gonnorhea.
Then she tells me and says its gonna go away lol like I’m dumb. Come to find out her and five of her sorors had herpes(not by the same guy)

@black
It might have been the same guy, lmao. If the sorrors get down like that to all have herpes as well. Thats messed up she was trying pull the okie doke on ya.Good thing your smart

Oh last one
The number one dealbreaker was women who constantly talk over you,or women who always have to win arguments. IMO sometimes its ok to agree to disagree,but this one person I messed with always had a rebuttal n couldn’t admit defeat

@black
Cosign bruh. For real

@lyrical
I know I was a manwhore n college however I used condoms n fear of catchin stuff. Was messed up bc she wanted me to still dig her the same however I told her not to mess wit him and now she has that foreva stuff. I went as far as not even allowing her n my car thas how scared I was

black: I just said ‘fuck effort’ the last time i had sex. i got a blunt and let him do all the work and he was happy to do it.

these dudes now days are trife. so scared of getting that bumpy johnson or worse.

oh and men with long hair or braids.

Over 40 comments without me? You traitors. LOL

Going to read. I’ll be back. I see Black has posted. Have to investigate.

sorry people…

transformer blew at the j-o-b so no internet for me…

anywho…damn I missed a lot, here goes:

1. never been lazy in the sack
2. we have a whole feminine aisle in EVERY store…that sour coochie mess is NOT to be tolerated, ladies
3. i wish a stank ass fool WOULD come by me…i do not have much tact…or mouth control (obviously)
4. ladies COVER YOUR TEETH before you ‘engulf’ your S.O.
5. Condoms are your friend…they’re small, cheap and convenient…don’t become a statistic
6. short men need not apply (does ANYBODY really want a short dude? Have they ever been in style?)
7. In the infamous words of Trina “the sex good girl…Let that n**ga know” or the other way around too
8. Kegals are a LIFESAVER!!
9. Pink Lotion? OH HELL NAW
10. Febreeze + coochie = infectious disease…im just saying
11. Lanyea “I would be highly upset if we’re sitting on the couch watching a nice movie and you kids run out the room and stand in front of the t.v. to show you the latest dance soulja boy has taught them” <—hil-effin-larious!

Now let me ask everyone this…is a long distance relationship a deal breaker? me and my friend were just on AIM about this and he said that is his deal breaker. If he is with a female and she has to move away for school or work, etc. He has to end it. He is a diff. type of man and could not endure that.

Also someone who has been incarcerated before…dealbreaker yes or no?

@Nisha

long distance is the WORST…there’s only so much phone sex, webcamming, texting, emailing and letter writing you can do before someone more conveinent starts to get your attention. I’m with your friend…that ish is a deal breaker!

what about finding out the dude (or girl) you’re dating dated someone you know relatively well in the past? (cousin, friend, even brother or sister?) And I dont mean like your best friends most recent ex either. Deal breaker?

that’s definitely a deal breaker for me. I don’t want to be with an ex con.

as far as long distance, it just depends. If no one is ever planning on moving then I can’t do it.

@chelsea

I know I met this guy and did not know he used to date my friend in like middle school lol.

Anyway for me it is a dealbreaker! One can only imagine the thoughts that would run through your head. I think it would cause major conflict.

Oh yeah cheating and homosexuality is a deal breaker.

I dont want a man who used to be or “sometimes” dabbles in another man’s booty. No way no how.
Cheating is def. a dealbreaker. The trust is gone.

I don’t do imaginary relationships. So long distance is a no no. And I don’t do ex felons. Period.

I wont date a guy that dated a relative (actually happened once) and I also will not date another comfuzzled sexuality dude. Can’t handle it.

mmm…ex-cons…there’s something about a thug (youtube’s “down ass bitch” by ja rule and charli baltimore)<–HA!

I dont think i’d completely count a guy out cuz he has a record…i think it depends on the crimes, the length of time served, number of infractions and his overall demeanor (I mean does he LOOK like he really stabbed 37 people in an ice cream parlor?)….hmm…maybe I should rethink this one

lmao @ chelsea.

Too funny. No snipers for the kid lol.

@ black

I can’t even pick on you. Shoot! *mumbles* I agree with everything you said. *mumbles* I am the female that demands to be treated like a lady. Chivalry is not dead. You will open my door, pull out my chair, call, send flowers, etc. I just don’t play that, and he does get treated like a man. I express my appreciation, do not take it for granted, and do what I can for him.

However, it’s been my experience that guys will put me on a pedastal which I’m good with. BUT when it comes to the bedroom, I get treated with kiddie gloves. And I’m sorry. I may be small, but PUT IT ON ME.

i’m generally not attracted to ‘gangsta’ looking dudes anyways. you give me a well dressed black man and i’m like butta baby

@ Nisha:

I haven’t had the greatest experience with LDRs, but I’m sure it’s possible for it to work. It just hasn’t for me.

As for the ex-cons, yeah…probably not. No. It depends on