When most guys set out to impress a woman they do all the wrong things. Here are 10 ways you can set yourself apart from the 39 other lame guys she’s met, and I guarantee that she’s both impressed and intrigued by you.

**Submitted by an anonymous Fly Guy reader** Maybe we as women shot ourselves in the foot. Demanding the right to vote, right to work, right to equal pay, the right to be heard. Maybe the more we demand and receive, the less men become. Did somewhere along the sands of time a switch get turned off in men?

Who really wins in a break up? On the one hand, you have the “break up-ee” who is forced to cope with the conflicting pain and outrage of being told they are no longer needed nor wanted by their significant other. On the other side of this broken equation, you have the “break up-er,” the one effectively putting an end to the continued progression of the relationship.

What initially started off as a regular morning for Tonya, quickly spiraled out of control without any warning. As soon as she arrived at work, she logged on to instant messenger, as she always did, to chat with her significant other. Suddenly, things between the two of them took an unexpected turn for the worse.

Remember the first time you met your girlfriend or wife? Didn’t you love those skintight jeans and the top that made it impossible to look her in the eyes? Now think back to the wedding day: Months of dieting, Pilates, and expensive hair appointments transformed her into a beautiful bride and a head-turner on the honeymoon. Now snap back to the present…

If you’re in the Atlanta area this Friday Oct. 10, then come and hang out with me at Mood Lounge, as myself and colleague Dr. Tartt talk love and relationships. Check out the flyer inside for details, and email me at flyguychronicles@gmail.com if you have any additional questions. See you then.

Dear Fly Guy…A love interest of mine (soon to be former) has told me that he believes that no man can be faithful. He hangs around younger and older men (say early 40s) and he says that they all cheat on their wives and girlfriends. Due to this, he says he will never be faithful.

I saw this, and figured it would come in handy for the women of this site. Let me know if you need me to order you one Today’s Fly Question of the Day: If you could improve one thing about your relationship with men with just the push of a button, what would it be? For the men, same question applies.

For the most part, my family supports my career from a distance. They aren’t the type that constantly call or email, looking for ways to influence the trajectory of my life as the Fly Guy. I love that about them. So when I received an email yesterday from my cousin Ben with the subject heading, “Possible Fly Guy Topic,” I knew that it demanded my attention.

In my mind I wondered, “Am I moving too fast? Do I know enough about this woman to take the plunge into commitment?” It was a valid question since far too many times on previous occasions I had allowed the emotions of the moment to dictate my actions. If a woman made me feel good, then she must have been the one for me.