I was sick as a dog yesterday. It sucked for me, but it did give me some extra internet time. While surfing the web, I ran across this article that I wanted to share with you. Let me know your thoughts.

The relationship was doomed from the start. It didn’t have to be that way, but how could the outcome be any different when she came to the table with such a messed up attitude? From my end, things appeared to be going great. But not a day passed without her having something negative to say about our “future.”

Colin and Mia had been together two years when they hit their first dry spell. “We hadn’t had sex in a few weeks, and one night before bed she asked me how I was dealing with it,” says Colin (not his real name), a 38-year-old vice president at a Web start-up in Boston. “I told her I was masturbating,” he says. “She asked me where and how.” So Colin took a deep breath and told her: at the office, once a week or so, to Internet porn.

Don’t worry; I haven’t forgotten about the list of lies that women tell men. I’m actually working on that list as we speak. But after reading some of the responses from the “Lies That Men Tell” post from a couple of days ago, I wanted to ask you something. Which part do you hate more: The fact that someone lied to you, or the fact that you found out about it?

I never wanted to use this column as pulpit to profess my faith. That was never my intention. It was always my belief that doing so would push away the ones who needed to hear me the most. But I hope you don’t mind if for just one moment, I break from that policy to share some very personal reflections. Is that ok?

I ran across this book yesterday titled “101 Lies That Men Tell Women” by Dory Hollander. After reading it, I have to say………………………. I found it extremely intriguing to say the least. Not because I took any sort of pleasure from an entire book dedicated to blasting us men (because believe me I didn’t.) In fact, it was the exact opposite.

So I’m sitting at dinner last night with a woman who to me was brimming with potential. She was smart, successful, driven, funny, and incredibly beautiful. She even possessed those character traits that I prefer, but aren’t necessarily deal breakers: she liked to travel, was knowledgeable about sports, and even preferred using Lever 2000 over other soap brands.

The women of Danity Kane recently stopped by Fly Guy TV to discuss love and relationships, and boy did they have a lot to say on the subject. So make sure you check out this exclusive interview where the “Making the Band” stars share with the Fly Guy everything from how men approach them, to the perfect way to heal from a broken heart.

They say it’s hard to make long distance relationships work, but who really cares what “they” say. In my heart, I was so convinced that she was the one for me. So it didn’t matter what anyone else had to say. When it was time for her to move away, I made a solemn vow before her and God that I would give my all to make our relationship work.

Dear Fly Guy…I’m almost at the point where I feel like giving up on dating all together and becoming celibate. I’m a single mother and I have my life together. I have no drama with my daughter’s father being that he is not an active part of her life. I just find it so frustrating trying to find a guy that isn’t a creepy loser to just DATE, not shack up with. Any advice? Like a dating manual for the single mother with a good head on her shoulders?