Comments on: 6 Signs Of A Cheater-Revisited

By: fashion_guru

fashion_guru — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 13:10:17 +0000

Im loving the one about being top secret. Great post

By: Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door

Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:25:53 +0000

Last I checked women cheat just as much AND better than men do–Ms. Miss

Thank you! Finally somebody who feels the same way I do!

By: Ms. Miss

Ms. Miss — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:14:00 +0000

I have definitely done many of these as a previous cheater. Good signs. Why are folks so mad about this possibly being about females? Last I checked women cheat just as much AND better than men do. FG directs a good portion of his entries toward men but I like when they are directed toward women so that I can do a self evaluation to see if I fit the bill or not.

By: quietone

quietone — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 03:45:07 +0000

These are so true…but they can really be applied to women and men.

I’ll pass on the whole cheating thing, though. Never really understood it…

By: blackfujones

blackfujones — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 15:07:16 +0000

@and1grad,
Man I’m telling u talk about double standards here. They’ll brag about how great of a cheater they are yet hate males who cheat? Come on yall get it together

By: Nishadiva

Nishadiva — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 08:40:51 +0000

@and1grad…

You seem confused…But no one can win this arguement but Chelsea mad some good points(please don’t say I agree because I’m a woman).

By: and1grad

and1grad — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:59:50 +0000

@chelsea
I dont think men cheat more than women b/c I really dont have a reason to. All that other stuff you bring up is simply b/c its a topic that caters to women. Its like asking why department stores carry so much more of women’s clothing than men’s. There is attention aimed at women…mostly by other women. Claiming that women are such great cheaters and at the same time saying that its mainly a male issue IS a contradiction.

How are you gonna direct men when you dont even know which way your argument is supposed to go? lol

By: Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door

Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:48:16 +0000

@and1grad

Ditto to you, boo…

no I don’t contradict myself. Women are great and crafty cheaters, but many women are too lovestruck to cheat. There are those of us, however, that can, will, and do cheat! You don’t have to say we’re better cheaters…its a widefelt sentiment that doesn’t need stating.

Why don’t you think men cheat more than women? If they didn’t, why are there so many laws against adultery aimed at men? Why is there a Lifetime Movie Network…why are there internet blogs, books, dvds and counseling sessions to help women help men not cheat? Why was the term “sex-addict” coined? Don’t worry…I’ll wait. If women were TRULY the problem, wouldn’t there be some kind of attention aimed at us?

And I’ll be a crossing guard and wear my title proudly. Somebody needs to DIRECT you confused ass men into some type of act right. Might as well be MOI!

By: and1grad

and1grad — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:32:11 +0000

@Chelsea
lol…I can already tell its gonna be fun to argue with you. I didnt actually say that women are better cheaters or any of that. In fact, I dont even believe that men cheat more often than women. Wouldnt that contradict your women are such great cheaters sentiment? I do agree that women need a reason to cheat tho. That reason: Women like #$%king.

I like your 2nd paragraph. Right, right, signs, left. What are you, a crossing guard? Some of these fast heffas need to stop.

By: Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door

Chelsea...Not the Girl Next Door — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 20:13:47 +0000

@and1grad

wow….ur right. Women are better cheaters…men cheat more often and are sloppy about it. Women need a REASON to cheat…men just need a PLACE!

Men also threaten their women with cheating to keep them in line. Women just cheat on that ass and then when you find out, you either leave (which she wanted you to do anyway) or act right (which is a joy to watch). Men are dogs becuz they don’t know better and the right woman hasn’t had a chance to train them right. In the infamous words of Miss Whitney Houston – it’s not right, but its ok. Study the signs if you want…you’ll still end up gettin played to the damn left! lol…