We Need To Communicate MoreAug 12th, 2008 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Perspectives
You’ve checked back in with me from time to time, and I’ve given you the exact same thing. “She’s In Love With Another Man,” with no new content. You’ve even voiced your concerns to me through private emails, the likes of which were wide-ranging…
“What’s up with you Fly Guy?”
“Come on Fly Guy, I’ve been looking for my daily fix and you haven’t been providing it.”
“Are you okay Fly Guy? Did you get robbed by that vicious gang of midgets that’s been on the news? You know the ones that have been beating people up and stealing their laptops. Is that what happened to you?”
Ok, maybe not the last one, but your concerns were still very real. And what did you get from me in return?
But isn’t that what happens far too many times in relationships? You find yourself searching for answers as to what’s going on with the other person, and they offer you nothing to go on. And much like the gangster midget scenario, you begin to let your imagination get the best of you.
Well I don’t want things to be like that within our relationship. (Yes, you and I are engaged in a very intimate relationship where we stimulate each other mentally.) So allow me to reopen the channels of communication between the two of us. My travel schedule has been extremely hectic over the past few days, so instead of half doing my job, I decided to wait until I could give you the Fly Guy that you’ve grown accustomed to. So now that I’m back (although I’m still currently stuck in my hotel in LA getting a little stir crazy) I’d like to stick with this communication issue within the context of romantic relationships.
Today’s Fly Question:
Has communication ever been the main problem within your relationship? If so, tell me what happened, and how things were eventually resolved.
Also, have you ever been guilty of making up your own conclusions when the communication with your loved one was virtually nonexistent? Were you accurate in your assumptions, or were you far off like our midget mafia story from earlier?
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