Comments on: This Is What She Wants

By: Danielle

Danielle — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 00:32:37 +0000

I think that her interpretation was only showing the side that she was feeling, that’s not to say that she doesn’t understand love involves more than just that. The fact that she mentioned jobs and responsibilities shows that she knows there is alot more involved. It sounds like she has been hurt or disappointed before and wants to believe that she can live and love past that.

I wonder if men feel that way. I have never heard a man say he got butterflies when a woman walked in the room. Perhaps that’s just not manspeak, but I wonder if men have the capacity to feel the same way about love as we women do…..hmnnnnn

By: blackfujones

blackfujones — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:46:02 +0000

Sorry guys I was away so I couldn’t get my daily bashing by reina and chrissy. When I say women are ill-equipped to find this type of love I mean they are ill-equipped by default due to a sort of “white picket fence “theory I have. And I brought up my ex bc it was just that puppy luv “we were together eight yrs 14-22″. The women I encountered were so caught up and mystified just like FG’s buddy that reality never seemed to have any room to exist. So basically he or she is always living n freaking la la land and never accounts for the ups n downs of relationships. Me I don’t live like that,I’m n love head over heels for my wife however I allow a helluva lot of room for reality bc I know she lives n la la land most times bc she’s a woman.

By: None As Loving As Her

None As Loving As Her — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:37:45 +0000

TOTALLY possible!!!! True love will last forever. Look at your grandparents or great grandparents that have been married for 40 and 50 yrs….Nothing worth having comes easy but once you get it you want to keep it forever. Now a days the younger generation is lazy and they dont want to work for the love that they claim they want. This generation is quick to turn their backs on each other because it doesnt not benefit them right then and there. But know that once you grow and mature your going to wish you had that special someone to spend your days with. Find someone who you love to talk to because when sex is a thing of the past communication will be all you have left to hold onto. I HOPE SHE FINDS THAT LOVE!!!

By: Fay

Fay — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 18:01:17 +0000

I think her wants are beautiful and realistic. I have that love in my life and was fortunate enough to marry the man who has made me feel that way since the 10th grade and fortunately he is a great guy who deserves and gets all that in return. Knowing everything I know and I’m sure knowing everything he knows, definitely means it takes a lot of trust to allow yourself to love and be loved in that way. I trust him and our love and it’s soooooooooooooooooooooooooo worth it!

By: TaMeekaP

TaMeekaP — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 15:45:00 +0000

I can honestly say I feel that way about my Fiancé, I am 29 years old and We have been together since 2004. I can’t say that I have felt that way the entire time but relationships has it ups and downs. Like that Tamia song “still”. For a person to feel this way about another person the love has to be that agape love. Love with no conditions.

By: Sequoia

Sequoia — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:32:39 +0000

I’ve never really had a problem feeling that way….(particularly with the guy I’m dating now.) The problem that I’ve had is wanting the guy I’m with to feel (and show!) that he feels that way as well. Women are notorious for wearing our hearts on our sleeves and loving HARD….I just want someone who isn’t afraid to show that they’re head over heels about me too.

By: kriscole83

kriscole83 — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 22:36:26 +0000

It reminds me of Alicia Keys’ song on her last cd. I can’t think of the correct name but she is talking to her man saying let’s go back to those days where we were first dating and getting to know each other. I think that if people remind themselves why they are with someone and remember when it was good then they can have those wonderful things (if that other person is on board also).

By: Miss Coco

Miss Coco — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 21:31:48 +0000

I think it is possible to feel that way. And in special circumstances it does not have to be in the beginning. I have only been with my man two years but I feel that way about him. When we first met I really wasn’t looking to talk to him, I was just bored. Now I absolutely love him.

@ Bahama With you asking will she be giving all these feelings back, shouldn’t be a question because she could be doing everything for him that he is doing for her but he could just not feel the same way. And it doesn’t always have to be things they do intentionally but just the way a person is can make you feel all giddy inside. It all depends on the person and their all around attraction to other person.

By: chrissy snow

chrissy snow — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 19:16:32 +0000

LMAO @ Chrissy..always starting something..

^^^^^lol you know me Bammy, gotta keep some excitment going, besides B.C. is my new cyber buddy so he cool, lol and blackfujones, i gotta school him on a regular it seems like but its all in a days work…..

By: Momo

Momo — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 18:40:36 +0000

All of this is possible…for about the first few weeks of the relationship. Then you get use to each other. And then you begin to miss that butterfly feeling…and then you begin to look elsewhere to get it. Truthfully, many of the things listed just do not happen in a relationship that isn’t brand new. Sounds like she wants the fantasy instead of the reality. But that’s ok, she should just know that it won’t last forever.