Comments on: If I Promised You The World…Would You Give Me A Chance? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: blackfujones http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1618 blackfujones Fri, 22 Aug 2008 14:01:50 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1618 Thas messed up when women actually consider dating "n-words" instead of men. Never thought I'd hear it come out but I guess I was avoiding the obvious fact. Women are truly materialistic and they create/encourage males to be this way so they can have an opportunity to b with them. Sad times Thas messed up when women actually consider dating “n-words” instead of men. Never thought I’d hear it come out but I guess I was avoiding the obvious fact. Women are truly materialistic and they create/encourage males to be this way so they can have an opportunity to b with them. Sad times

]]> By: Heard It All B4 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1617 Heard It All B4 Fri, 22 Aug 2008 01:21:27 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1617 Songbird, I totally agree. Its not that we want the flashy guys that can do stuff for us but if I have to choose between the guy who don't act right and can't afford to do anything nice for me and the guy who don't act right but can afford to show me a nice time - SORRY the flashy guy will when. And that is typically what women are faced with in my opinion! I used to only date drug dealers - gave that up years ago and I am telling its hard to this day not to go back because at least while I was dealing with the BS I had nice things to go with it! At times I am so tempted to go back to my old ways and its all because if the guy flashy or not they all the same! The brokest man living in his mama basement catching the bus will try to play you! If I am going to get played please give me the trips and shopping with it! No I haven't went back to the drug dealers but I am still tempted!!!! Songbird, I totally agree. Its not that we want the flashy guys that can do stuff for us but if I have to choose between the guy who don’t act right and can’t afford to do anything nice for me and the guy who don’t act right but can afford to show me a nice time – SORRY the flashy guy will when. And that is typically what women are faced with in my opinion! I used to only date drug dealers – gave that up years ago and I am telling its hard to this day not to go back because at least while I was dealing with the BS I had nice things to go with it! At times I am so tempted to go back to my old ways and its all because if the guy flashy or not they all the same! The brokest man living in his mama basement catching the bus will try to play you! If I am going to get played please give me the trips and shopping with it! No I haven’t went back to the drug dealers but I am still tempted!!!!

]]> By: ms mac http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1616 ms mac Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:15:11 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1616 @ songbird, you put that quite well and I totally understand where you're coming from. For me, it's about balance. Maybe I'm just spoiled and want it all but why can't you whisk me off to St Tropez AND treat me like you want an emotuonal connection. Are the two mutually exclusive? You mean I can't be your true boo and have it good too? Do you mean to tell me there's no happy median? Do we really have to either be broke down together and happy or thriving but ready for the break up any day now cause you're ready for something more "efficient?" Are you saying that a man who has lots to give materialistically cannot also possess a loving, tender heart. Oh please. Sounds to me like you're making a case that the good brothers don't have enough means to fulfill a woman's desire for adventure and fun. If that' the case, that's certainly not the woman's fault. @ songbird, you put that quite well and I totally understand where you’re coming from.

For me, it’s about balance. Maybe I’m just spoiled and want it all but why can’t you whisk me off to St Tropez AND treat me like you want an emotuonal connection. Are the two mutually exclusive? You mean I can’t be your true boo and have it good too? Do you mean to tell me there’s no happy median? Do we really have to either be broke down together and happy or thriving but ready for the break up any day now cause you’re ready for something more “efficient?” Are you saying that a man who has lots to give materialistically cannot also possess a loving, tender heart. Oh please. Sounds to me like you’re making a case that the good brothers don’t have enough means to fulfill a woman’s desire for adventure and fun. If that’ the case, that’s certainly not the woman’s fault.

]]> By: Ray http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1615 Ray Thu, 21 Aug 2008 09:32:22 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1615 Attraction. Attraction.

]]> By: kriscole83 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1614 kriscole83 Wed, 20 Aug 2008 19:04:16 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1614 It is a turn off for me when a man brags. I had that happen to me yesterday and I don't plan on calling him again. I could care less what you can do for me, that isn't going to keep me. It is a turn off for me when a man brags. I had that happen to me yesterday and I don’t plan on calling him again. I could care less what you can do for me, that isn’t going to keep me.

]]> By: blackfujones http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1613 blackfujones Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:35:25 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1613 I so hate the word "swagger". Anywho I love your honesty reina wish more would admit that as well. Women really have to admit that in a lot of cases they love to hear the accomplishments and accolades of men. I so hate the word “swagger”. Anywho I love your honesty reina wish more would admit that as well. Women really have to admit that in a lot of cases they love to hear the accomplishments and accolades of men.

]]> By: esheblue http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1612 esheblue Wed, 20 Aug 2008 17:07:06 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1612 @Mr. Right Now...maybe I have a different definition of swagger but being boastful is not within it. Swagger to me is confidence it isn't what you say...it is how you carry yourself at all times. I am a big fan of just telling people that you like them without overwhelming them. Don't tell them right off the bat that you are in love with them and want to make ten babies with them. Start slow...tell them you are interested in possibly transitioning the relationship--even if you are already at the altar. You have to remember to allow the other person time to let the feelings develop if they aren't initially at your level. @Mr. Right Now…maybe I have a different definition of swagger but being boastful is not within it. Swagger to me is confidence it isn’t what you say…it is how you carry yourself at all times.

I am a big fan of just telling people that you like them without overwhelming them. Don’t tell them right off the bat that you are in love with them and want to make ten babies with them. Start slow…tell them you are interested in possibly transitioning the relationship–even if you are already at the altar. You have to remember to allow the other person time to let the feelings develop if they aren’t initially at your level.

]]> By: ATLCutie http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1611 ATLCutie Wed, 20 Aug 2008 16:27:44 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1611 Ok so what about the women who don't want to be rejected who do the same thing. Women, at least I do, are afraid that the feelings won't be mutual as well. And I'll admit that I have bragged a little bit, but I chalked it up to me to stepping my game up, and putting myself out there more. Well see how it goes. BTW T-Pain is married. Ok so what about the women who don’t want to be rejected who do the same thing. Women, at least I do, are afraid that the feelings won’t be mutual as well. And I’ll admit that I have bragged a little bit, but I chalked it up to me to stepping my game up, and putting myself out there more. Well see how it goes.
BTW T-Pain is married.

]]> By: lyricalluv http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1610 lyricalluv Wed, 20 Aug 2008 15:57:01 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1610 You have a point there FG,but not many women want materialistic things,Common on now T-PAIN you could have done better than that.Myself personally I'm a woman that needs substance and stability to keep me with a man.Those items can all be seized and auctioned by the IRS at the end of the day. You have a point there FG,but not many women want materialistic things,Common on now T-PAIN you could have done better than that.Myself personally I’m a woman that needs substance and stability to keep me with a man.Those items can all be seized and auctioned by the IRS at the end of the day.

]]> By: quietone http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1609 quietone Wed, 20 Aug 2008 15:54:07 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/20/if-i-promised-you-the-worldwould-you-give-me-a-chance/#comment-1609 @chrissy snow...have you SEEN t-pain, his ass gotta make them kinda promises...lmao. On the real tho, I can imagine that situation would be frustrating for a man but not all women are that way. If a man should find himself faced with this dilemma, he should continue to remain strong and true to himself. He should not allow himself to be swayed by experiences with the superficial. He should try to be patient because the woman he truly seeks he will find. @chrissy snow…have you SEEN t-pain, his ass gotta make them kinda promises…lmao. On the real tho, I can imagine that situation would be frustrating for a man but not all women are that way. If a man should find himself faced with this dilemma, he should continue to remain strong and true to himself. He should not allow himself to be swayed by experiences with the superficial. He should try to be patient because the woman he truly seeks he will find.

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