Comments on: Get The Point. Please!!! http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/ Love Advice, Dating Tips, Sex and Love, Celebrity Perspectives Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:15:16 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: SOTBMagazine http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2841 SOTBMagazine Sun, 03 Aug 2008 19:31:54 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2841 Wowww nice one. hmmm, similar to theo other ladies i ran into this about 2 months ago. As everyone knows..latin men (especially immigrants) tend to be a lil more aggressive when it comes to dating. so i met dated this Colombian dude who started texting & calling around the clock and he'd be stalking me at work and sh*t. I told him..look dude i'm not down with that possessive sh*t. And, of course, he still hasn't grabbed a clue! Wowww nice one. hmmm, similar to theo other ladies i ran into this about 2 months ago. As everyone knows..latin men (especially immigrants) tend to be a lil more aggressive when it comes to dating. so i met dated this Colombian dude who started texting & calling around the clock and he’d be stalking me at work and sh*t. I told him..look dude i’m not down with that possessive sh*t. And, of course, he still hasn’t grabbed a clue!

]]> By: ubringmejoi http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2785 ubringmejoi Sun, 03 Aug 2008 02:51:45 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2785 lol..... you could of at least mentioned putting this up, lmao! my home girl had a dude like this recently, it was funny they went out it was cool. he would come by her job 'To say Hi," they briefly talked another day and she mentioned going out to uptown, later that night he was there and kept staring at her, texting her etc. and lastly, he invited her to his job and made her pay for the food, WTF! needless to say she has tried her best to stop contact with him, he still calls to say whatever but she does not respond.... men like this are hilarious, though i know that there are women like this too.... good luck "all's fair in dating and love" ha ha ;-) lol….. you could of at least mentioned putting this up, lmao!

my home girl had a dude like this recently, it was funny they went out it was cool. he would come by her job ‘To say Hi,” they briefly talked another day and she mentioned going out to uptown, later that night he was there and kept staring at her, texting her etc. and lastly, he invited her to his job and made her pay for the food, WTF!

needless to say she has tried her best to stop contact with him, he still calls to say whatever but she does not respond….

men like this are hilarious, though i know that there are women like this too….

good luck “all’s fair in dating and love” ha ha ;-)

]]> By: ms.kimba12 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2743 ms.kimba12 Sat, 02 Aug 2008 14:33:36 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2743 I've so been there! Had to get a PPO against a guy who lived right down the street from. The only interaction we ever had was casual chatting - just in passing. Next thing I know - he's ringing the doorbell at 3:00am, and leaving notes on my car - can't stop thing about me, telling my son he's his new stepdaddy... Thank God he didn't have my phone number. I’ve so been there! Had to get a PPO against a guy who lived right down the street from. The only interaction we ever had was casual chatting – just in passing. Next thing I know – he’s ringing the doorbell at 3:00am, and leaving notes on my car – can’t stop thing about me, telling my son he’s his new stepdaddy… Thank God he didn’t have my phone number.

]]> By: Aretha http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2727 Aretha Sat, 02 Aug 2008 08:00:44 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2727 OMG!!! Why do guys do this. I've never experienced anything this crazy, but I've recently dealt with the excessive phone calls with the guilt trip voice mails...argh. OMG!!! Why do guys do this. I’ve never experienced anything this crazy, but I’ve recently dealt with the excessive phone calls with the guilt trip voice mails…argh.

]]> By: Wale http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2666 Wale Fri, 01 Aug 2008 20:32:26 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2666 OK Fly Guy, why are you guys a trip...LMAO. I'd love to be a "fly" on the wall when you and your people are coming up with this stuff. Very funny!!! OK Fly Guy, why are you guys a trip…LMAO. I’d love to be a “fly” on the wall when you and your people are coming up with this stuff. Very funny!!!

]]> By: ShaeShay http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2656 ShaeShay Fri, 01 Aug 2008 19:04:05 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2656 Oh my goodness! This is a mild version of what I recently went through. My friend introduced me to her cousin. He lives in the caribbean, so I thought he would just be a cool person to talk to every now and then...Especially since he has a girlfriend (by the way, he never told me he had a girlfriend, his cousin did). It started off with him calling me every now and then...and within a week he was calling me while I was at work, afterwork, at night...I was so tired of him calling I would just turn my phone off until the next day. He didn't get the hint that I didn't want to talk to him because he started calling me from his friend's phone. That's when I had to light his ass up...I couldn't take no more!lol I tried to be nice. :) Oh my goodness! This is a mild version of what I recently went through. My friend introduced me to her cousin. He lives in the caribbean, so I thought he would just be a cool person to talk to every now and then…Especially since he has a girlfriend (by the way, he never told me he had a girlfriend, his cousin did). It started off with him calling me every now and then…and within a week he was calling me while I was at work, afterwork, at night…I was so tired of him calling I would just turn my phone off until the next day. He didn’t get the hint that I didn’t want to talk to him because he started calling me from his friend’s phone. That’s when I had to light his ass up…I couldn’t take no more!lol I tried to be nice. :)

]]> By: She Is Qui http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2637 She Is Qui Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:23:42 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2637 LMAO@ one of those women who grow dreds and stop shaving!!! i've been in a situation like that before. we were talking for a week. we had some much in common that it was unreal! after that week went by, he started calling me every 5 mins when he knew i was out with my girls. asking me who i was with and all that! i cut him off and he starts calling me 25 times a day! no joke! filled my inbox and voice mail box. even came and knocked on my door when he realized i wasn't going to pick up the phone. i don't understand why you'd continue to call someone who doesn't answer your calls! LMAO@ one of those women who grow dreds and stop shaving!!!

i’ve been in a situation like that before. we were talking for a week. we had some much in common that it was unreal! after that week went by, he started calling me every 5 mins when he knew i was out with my girls. asking me who i was with and all that! i cut him off and he starts calling me 25 times a day! no joke! filled my inbox and voice mail box. even came and knocked on my door when he realized i wasn’t going to pick up the phone. i don’t understand why you’d continue to call someone who doesn’t answer your calls!

]]> By: songbird http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2636 songbird Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:09:16 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2636 LOL @ Darrel! I met a guy like that recently, actually. Met him at a club, gave him my #. We were texting (just short, random messages) for about 2 days, then he starts texting me stuff like he's been thinking of me constantly since we met... 2 hours after out first phone call he texts that he's still thinking of me since we hung up, and then asking if I think we could be an item, because he & I would be a beautiful thing. Trust me, I get why someone would be so excited (if you met me, you'd understand! haha!), because we all get like that sometimes. But, the key is to keep a lot of that to yourself. Sharing a little is fine, you want the other person to know you're interested, but it feels stalker-ish and possessive when I've only known you for 2 days and you lay it on that thick. LOL @ Darrel! I met a guy like that recently, actually. Met him at a club, gave him my #. We were texting (just short, random messages) for about 2 days, then he starts texting me stuff like he’s been thinking of me constantly since we met… 2 hours after out first phone call he texts that he’s still thinking of me since we hung up, and then asking if I think we could be an item, because he & I would be a beautiful thing.

Trust me, I get why someone would be so excited (if you met me, you’d understand! haha!), because we all get like that sometimes. But, the key is to keep a lot of that to yourself. Sharing a little is fine, you want the other person to know you’re interested, but it feels stalker-ish and possessive when I’ve only known you for 2 days and you lay it on that thick.

]]> By: Bahama http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/get-the-point-please/#comment-2631 Bahama Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:39:34 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/08/01/get-the-point-please/#comment-2631 *crying* That was he-larry-us..I had a guy that was kinda like that i called him the "stalker" and the funny thing was we ain't NEVER went on a date. We use to work together and he dropped me home once. I swear every other mintue my phone was ringing, it was a complete turn off. Like hell, i'd hate to see what he'd be like if we did ever go on a date. *crying*

That was he-larry-us..I had a guy that was kinda like that i called him the “stalker” and the funny thing was we ain’t NEVER went on a date. We use to work together and he dropped me home once. I swear every other mintue my phone was ringing, it was a complete turn off. Like hell, i’d hate to see what he’d be like if we did ever go on a date.

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