Pregnant And On The Prowl

Baby girl was wrong to sleep with him so quickly — not to say anything about your friend, but just as she’s not disclosing her pregnancy, he could be choosing to not disclose his herpes (or whatever). How irresponsible is that; it’s one thing to be reckless with yourself, but to put your unborn child at risk too?

However, one thing that popped in my mind was that maybe she was still undecided about whether to even have the child in the first place, and she didn’t want to say anything because that would be inviting him into her decision-making.

I’m not cool with the situation, but he needs to have a heart-to-heart with her if he’s interested in pursuing a relationship with her. No secrets, moving forward. And try to hear in her words why she withheld that important piece of info.

Songbird,

I hear what you are saying, and you’re right, disclosure certainly goes both ways. And you also may be right about her contemplating an abortion. But if that were the case, sex with another man shouldn’t even be an option right now until she made a decision one way or the other.

The whole thing is kind of crazy, and I’m not sure if he’s even interested in having that heart to heart with her. In his mind, it’s pretty much over.

I can’t say that I fault him for his decision.

Oh wooooooooooooow in flava flav voice. Oh that is just wrong. I can’t even process this. FOUR MONTHS??? boy no matter how you talk to someone you never really know a person. She really should have told him before they got busy that is just irresponsible

I agree with J on the tech. taking away private moments.

@FG: I definitely agree with you on that she should’ve kept her legs closed!

I don’t blame the man for letting this one go. That’s a tough pill to swallow, especially soooo early on.

Yeah I have to say I was speechless and I READ the head line lol. First off…sleeping with a man that is NOT the childs father just doesn’t sit well. But I agree she should have told him when she new she was going to keep it. Definitely should have told him before they sealed the deal.

If I were in her position I don’t even think I would be in the right mind frame to be out dating, let alone doing the do. This reminds me of that one pregnant chick that went on Elimidate. LOL

Scandalous! I don’t believe in full disclosure, but pregnancy is definitely something that should be revealed ASAP. He’s devoted a month of his time to this girl, and she’s withholding pertinent information. My complete disapproval on this.

Ebonics and Reina,

I agree with you both. I definitely felt for him when he was explaining his situation. My thing is, if she wants to date, I have no problem with it … whatever floats your boat. But having sex, especially without disclosing that first … an absolute no no.

I think that woman was wrong from withholding that kind of information from the dude, wrong on oh so many levels. I mean, even if she was still pondering on whether or not she wanted to keep the baby, she shouldn’t have had sex with the dude. I really don’t blame the guy if he doesn’t want to be involved with her anymore.

And for the love of God, ladies: your body is God’s temple, honour it and respect it. If you’re pregnant don’t go around sleeping with someone else than your baby daddy, it’s a major no-no.

trifilin…tsk,tsk!

“…trifilin…tsk,tsk!” – Clarke Kent

I hate to but I have to agree with Mr. Kent. She should have been upfront witht the man and she had sex…? SMDH what was she thinking? Is she a youing girl? Because mature women don’t do that crap. Was she thinking about her baby? She’s crazy.

Songbird they were dating for a month and that was too soon for them to have sex? Are you serious? What planet do you live on? Cause on Earth its not too often someone dates someone for a month and dont give it up lol.

I think that it is so disgusting and immature for her not to tell him that she was pregnant by another man. That is truly gross.