You and your man may be a better match than gold diggers and NBA All Star Weekend; but that won’t make him propose. Psychologist Alon Gratch, Ph.D., reveals the things that will.
I never thought it was possible for me to sink this low, or to feel this bad. But it’s happened, and now I’m clueless as to how to get over it. “Why didn’t I listen to all of those people who tried to warn me?” “Why do I have to be so stubborn at times?”
Last month, I featured Sara Bareilles’ “Gravity” as a Fly Lyrics feature. Even now, the song continues to resonate with me, as countless readers still struggle with the tough task of breaking free from the clutches of an old flame. “Set me free,” is what they all seem to be helplessly crying out in their emotional letters to me.
The beautiful Gina Ravera, talented co-star of the TNT hit series “The Closer,” stopped by Fly Guy headquarters to share her views on the value of communication within a relationship.
Dear Fly Guy, I was in a relationship for 9 months and things were going good until about 2 months ago. I became a really insecure and jealous girlfriend. My boyfriend and I began to argue over petty things all the time, and I was always upset. It got to the point where he told me that he was fed up and couldn’t deal with my attitude or personality.
Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been with my man for 5 years. I love him so much. He decided to move back home to pursue his career and against my better judgment, I agreed. I only agreed because he said he would come back in six months. The six months has become 2 years. We see each other all the time, but that wasn’t the agreement.
In case you missed it, last week’s edition of the Fly Guy Chronicles detailed the essential keys to being a great girlfriend. And while that column sparked a spirited debate, I still feel there’s more to be said. So as promised, I’ve compiled a list of traits that define a great boyfriend.
Dear Fly Guy, I want to start this letter off by saying that this is never going to be a reason why I will ever leave this man. I love the fact that he works and keeps the grind going. Our main issue is that he keeps jobs that are typically held by females. For instance, he’s a flight attendant and a cosmetologist. I’ve stood by him during both certifications and I am very proud of his accomplishments.
A broken heart. Many have been afflicted, but few actually understand any clear cut path to recovery. Such an approach or lack thereof often leads to endless amounts of pain and suffering. It has also been discovered that if left unchecked, a broken heart can actually prove to be more damaging than cigarette smoke, a high cholesterol diet, or even a marriage to Kevin Federline.
She hit a nerve. I’m not precisely sure of the exact moment of contact, but somehow, someway she managed to strike a chord deep within me. I’m intrigued by her.
“Wait … did I just say that?”
