Comments on: I Can Change Your Life

By: PJ

PJ — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 16:07:00 +0000

Yes I would be skeptical but also believe him. At first I didn’t believe my current boyfriend but something told me to give him a chance. I did and he proved that he is a man of his word.

By: yes

yes — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 05:09:38 +0000

the statement sounds too cocky, it just needs to be worded better

its like a dude finds a piece of trash, says “i can change your life” and turns it into gold

if he doesnt want to get the side-eye he should incorporate both of us as “upgrading each other” or however u want to put it

but anyway there were a lot of good points made, especially the last line cherish made in 25 and reina’s 37

By: TaurusLady

TaurusLady — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 01:35:37 +0000

This is another great post, FG. Although I’m not cynical, I’d still be a bit skeptical to believe a guy who would tell me that he can change my life. Don’t get me wrong: there are great guys out there who are well-intentioned, but I haven’t met many of them so far. It would be better if the guy demonstrated daily how his own philosophy on life can broaden my own views on love, trust and relationships. I understand that the purpose of a guy saying something like that to a woman is really to express to her how he sees that the both of them can blossom together to become better people. Still, saying flat out “I can change your life” sounds a bit odd, but the meaning behind it is very touching.

By: Ladylove

Ladylove — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 20:47:43 +0000

I am so digging this post. My parents are a prime example of what came be if you just let it. My mom had broken up with her boyfried because he cheated. She met my dad in church a few weeks later and he asked her out and she said yes. She didn’t close her heart off. On their first date he told her “Stick with me and I will take you places”. 10 months later they were engaged. This August makes 35 years of a beautiful marriage. That is what I pray is in store for me, but the Bible says that “he that findeth a wife findeth a GOOD thing.” So I am not looking, I am just making myself ready for when he comes knocking.

By: chrissy snow

chrissy snow — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:40:54 +0000

@Chrissy,
You speechless? You? Wait a minute…you? Chrissy Snow? Say it ain’t so. I will remember this moment forever…lol.
^^^^^LMAO STOP FG YOU NEED TO QUIT….

By: The Fly Guy

The Fly Guy — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:32:45 +0000

@Chrissy,
You speechless? You? Wait a minute…you? Chrissy Snow? Say it ain’t so. I will remember this moment forever…lol.

@Nikki P,

Glad you like the picks, and I appreciate your perspective. I really do…

By: Nikki Porcher

Nikki Porcher — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 19:21:00 +0000

I really want you to make a Fly Guy Cd!!! I love your picks.
As far as a guy coming to change my life, it would be nice. I know as women we are supposed to scream independent. Not saying there anything wrong with that. I’ll be the first one to shout it. But…IT WOULD BE NICE…if a man came in and be a man…

By: chrissy snow

chrissy snow — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 18:58:54 +0000

i can’t stop laughing @ FG’s response….lmmfao talking bout his confessions my gawd imma be dying offa this for the rest o’ the week

By: chrissy snow

chrissy snow — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 18:48:06 +0000

@ FG, i swear i can’t even come back @ you, you had me laughing out loud offa that one…..and B.C. imma always put ya name in caps so there….lol

bammy, i thought i had this, i guess not, next time i know to call you sooner to help me handle these men…..

By: Bahama

Bahama — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 18:36:56 +0000

damn i missed this? Chrissy you couldn’t tell me you needed back up, lmao..

and hell i’m a cynic, wasn’t always this way.. and i belive men and relationships suck :-)

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