I’m speechless. I’ll comment on your question later, but that song was so pretty. I didn’t know you could sing FG

Hell, I’m with badgyrl. That was a damned good song.

Damn FG. You’re just a regular balladeer huh? LOL. Naw, I can’t hate. That was cool shit.

I’ve never been on the receiving end of that, although I probably did selfishly walk away from my last relationship because I though she had too much drama going on in her life. Maybe I could have been there for her…

SHHHHHIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTT. I’m straight!

this song is the story of my life…

a lot of times you are into someone else more than they are into you

everything may seem cool in the beginning but you just may not be the one for that person

all u can do is learn from the situation and be happy that u did ur part even if it didnt work out

shake it off and keep tryin, dont let that person keep u from giving the next relationship ur best shot

Absolutely beautiful. I’ve defintiely been there.

I have heard about so many people who have been through this situation. Luckily, I have never experienced the end of it. My relationship now started out just like this. My boyfriend was just spiraling downward in his life, everything that could go wrong was going wrong. He basically had nothing going for himself but I stuck around and I kept working on him(yall men may call it nagging but I call it working), I mean I was riding his back. He had lost his job, so I spent all day filling out applications(and taking those long ass personality tests for him), I was getting everything he needed and supplying him with all the necessities, I was his shoulder to cry on, and the ear that was always listening. Then one day I got him a gig working for a family friend and her husband told me “I dont know why u doing all this for him he just gonna leave you when he gets back on his feet” and I confronted him on that and he told me that would never happen and it didnt.

@Cherish,

I just wanna know girl. While you were filling out these applications and getting him a job, what was he doing?

yeah I was about to ask that too. I’m glad it worked out for you Cherish, but that sounds like he was just being lazy and wan’t trying while you were doing everything for him. I hope he doesn’t take you for granted.

FG, tell me what it is you DON’T do? lol beautiful lyrics tho….

@Chrissy,

You just gave me a Five Heartbeats flashback with Big Red…lol

lmao @ FG, not my intentions, you know all ya lady readers got crushes on you tho right? the stuff you write, makes me wonder if you real or not…..

@chrissy, well I don’t know about the crush part. As far as whether I’m real or not … what else would I be? ;-)

@ FG, quit playin’ you know what it is, lol and iono what else you could be, i am just saying the stuff i read here makes me think why DA HELL all men don’t come off like FG do…..

@ Mz Chief
While I was doing that, he was going to job fairs, interviews and whatever else I could find online to send him to. See, we didnt have a computer at home so I would come to work, go online and call home and send him out places.

dang the song is hott. what did the name stand for?

i’ve never been in said situation but if i were I’d cut a fool..lol just kit-ting..My thing is if it’s obvious you don’t feel the same way about me that i feel about you then i’m not going cry and lust after you.It’s your loss. I’ll prolly be upset but i’ll get over it..somehow

@ Bahama
You say that if its obivous someone doesnt feel the same about you then you just keep it moving, but what if its not obvious?

@ Cherish

I think there are signs that can lead you or show you that your feelings aren’t being reciprocated (big word for the day!!! lol). but if there aren’t then it would be harder to get over the hurt. But still my thing is if you don’t want me i’m not going to cry a river over you as much as it might hurt, it’s still your loss.

@ Bahama
I guess this goes back to yesterdays discussion of ignoring the blatant signs

So FG, which voice is yours? The song is nice, and I like it. It cuts a bit, though. As someone who’s been on the dishing end, it resonates loud and true with a recent relationship. I wasn’t happy but I’d promised to stay with my guy. So I did because I knew he loved me deeply, and there was no guarantee that anyone else ever would. But I wasn’t happy and I had to walk away. He took it as a betrayal, a broken promise. It may have been, but I had to be selfish and do what I considered best for me.

Sometime’s we envision how we want people to be, without really seeing who they truly are.

Lesson’s we must all learn….at some point…I hope…lol

@Cherish,

Ok I understand.You were tag teaming it with your man. I was going to be real upset if he had you doing all of the work while he sat on his ass.

@ Mz. Chief
oh no girl I was past my days of being just plain dumb by then. I was looking for proof and paperwork from wherever I sent him to, cuz if I was gonna be busting my ass to help him, best believe he was busting his twice as hard. I could have just left him when he first lost his job, and came back when he got it together, but I didnt I helped him get it together and I guess it proved to be the right decision.

@FG: Maybe Chrissy Snow is on to something… maybe you’re really a girl disguising as a dude! That’s your man’s track, ain’t it? Don’t lie! LOL! Just kidding. The song is beautiful tho. What happened to the group?

@Cherish: I’m glad it worked out in the end.

@Chrissy,
No man is supposed to come off like me. We’re all different; all unique in our own way, just like you women are.

@Songbird: LOL, naw, there’s no disguise, just me. Don’t get caught up with Chrissy. She can be a bad influence…lol.

As far as the group, we just got older and pursued our own interests. It wasn’t anything bad; just sometimes you have to learn how to let go … like a relationship.

@FG, I hear that.

Good topic, btw. It sucks, but sometimes you get used, feelings just aren’t mutual, and you have to just brush your shoulder and move on. There really isn’t much you CAN do; you can’t chase after someone who doesn’t want you, and you make someone feel what you want them to feel. And sometimes it’s not always a vindictive thing; a person could have just fallen out of love, realized you’re not the one for them for the long haul, whatever, and they needed to move on. If it was a time where you really needed their support in your life, as sucky as it sounds in the moment, it may be for the best that they chose that time to leave so as not to lead you on any more to think there’s something there that’s not.

@ songbird
Great points made in 26 especially about falling out of love

Yes, been in that situation before, but we shouldn’t be destroyed because God made us givers. Love will blind you form seeing things that are so obvious that you end up getting hurt because you chose not to see the signs. Just another part of life’s lesson learned.

I remember when you was a singer, lol, you and ol Todd! You always could sing, i always liked it! You gave me my first serenade, you was still the fly guy, lol!

I love the song!! You sing and talk some of your words in the same manner. [did that last sentence make sense? lol]

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