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I ran across a feature today over at Sex On The Beach Magazine that is sure to generate countless stories of sex, lies, intrigue…wait. Just read the piece below, and I’ll be right back. I’m about to grab some popcorn so I can sit back and enjoy what is sure to come at the conclusion of this piece.
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Written By Goddess
This syndrome needs to be researched by psychologists world-wide and it damn sure deserves a spot in the research books because everyone has fallen victim to this at some point in their lives!!!
FuckNDuck (fuk.en.duk) n. A post sex scenario which occurs when either a man or woman disappears after sex and makes no attempts of contacting you or having future communication.
Ahhh, now you can relate…you just never knew what it was called!
This is a plague that sadly affects both the male and female species, however, women are more prone to the harsh reality of FuckNDuck.
Here’s a common scenario:
“We had such a mesmerizing and beautiful time on our first date. We went out to eat and shared GREAT conversation! It felt like this could be the perfect guy and that we shared so much in common. We were enjoying each others’ company and felt like it was too early to end the night. So I invited him to my place to watch movies and he gladly agreed. We were really into the movie, but the attraction was so steamy and strong … before you know it, one thing led to another and we were making out and on the fast track to what seemed like the BEST sex I’ve ever had!
In the aftermath, I felt kind of embarrassed about giving it up on the first date because I usually don’t do that so soon. But I was confident this guy would be different from the rest. The next day I was looking forward to my new friend calling me to say what an amazing time we had and to ask when we could do it again?! From past experiences I know that according to ‘guy time’ I may not get a follow-up ring until later that week. And then the unexpected happened … weeks flew by and I figured maybe something went wrong. I texted, phoned, and–NOTHING!!!”
Girl, ya been FuckNDucked. The quicker people become hip to the reality, the sooner they are better equipped to self-immunize or to prevent such a fiasco from happening to them. [source]
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The Fly Question:
So has this scenario ever happened to you? Have you ever been left high and dry before you even had a chance to get your clothes back on? Let me know.
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Tarrilyn
I’m hoping this doesn’t make me sound like a whore, but I’ve f*cked and ducked a time or two. I guess I just got caught up in the moment, and after it was all said and done, I didn’t want to deal with the guy anymore. His job was done. LMAO.
Mr. Biggs
@Tarrilyn,
As much as I wanted to slip in a sly comment, I’ll be real. I don’t think that makes you a whore. Just a woman that knows what she wants. I respect that.
$Banks$
I been doin this since I was 7.
songbird
@$Banks$: LOL!
@Mr. Biggs: Glad a man can recognize that.
Um, yeah… like Tarrilyn I have to admit to having done that a time or 3 in my past. It’s either because that’s all I was ever interested in from the minute I laid eyes on him, or, well, it was just so bad I couldn’t bear the thought of experiencing that again. I can’t say it’s ever happened to me though; but now that I said it I’ve probably jinxed myself…
Nikki P
I like that saying, going to have to add it to my daily usage. As far as me, I have and have been on both sides of this game. The reason for me doing it, all things would be going great and then it seems I would lose interest after sex. it may be the connection wasn’t there anymore His house may have been a mess. He said one thing to many. I may have thought it was going to be deeper then it was. Or I just wanted to see if he was going to lay with me. I mean I can’t b the only female who test men to see how fast they will give it up. I like to wait. Give me something to look forward to. Now as far as getting the game played on me…all the above things could apply. Or maybe he just was horny and I was in the right place at the right time with the right perfume on. Who knows
yes
dude was wack, imed me the other day like we cool even though i havent said nothin to him since 08
i think i can apply this to some of my fwb situations as well cuz after sometime it just gets old for me, i just dont see how ppl do that for years at a time, when i quit answering calls dude will leave a message like “what did i do?” and it was nothin, just time to move on
it may have happened to me but no one comes to mind, my sex life has been so stale i cant remember that far back anyway lol
Reina
LOL This was funny. Thought this was about AIDS or something when I saw the subject. I have no experiences with either side of this. My sex life is so boring.
Cherish
As much as I would like to say no it has happened to me. Twice actually, pretty much around the same time(yeah I was a mini-whore, but I rehabbed before it was too late). The thing with me was that it wasnt after the 1st time it was like maybe the third or fourth time and then the nigga just disappeared. Im was sittin there like wtf, where did he go. Now with one guy I took it on the chin and just let him go, but the other guy I was really feeling so I became a little stalker-ish and it didnt help him that he live right around the corner from me. I mean I was riding thru his block at least twice a day, then I found out where he worked and happened to always be in that area right when he was getting off, I even remember I caught him on the corner of his block with a friend, and I just circled the block over and over. LMAO I was sprung.
Tubbs
LMAO…not the drive bys. Did he see you? He must have really put that thang on you. LOL
Cherish
@ Tubbs
Yeah he saw me, him and his friend were crackin up sayin “just stop” but i never stopped i just kept circling the block for like 30 mins then i left