So things have been going well between me and mystery woman X … I mean really well. And while I’m happy about our progress, there’s one impending question that I’m sure neither one of us will be ready to address when the time comes. “What will we call each other?”

Yesterday I was challenged by one of my readers to come to the table with a song that promoted the positive side of love. Well I decided to do her one better, and share some of my favorite songs that do just that. Enjoy my selections, and feel free to add your own picks to the list. I’ll tell you what; I’ll even add your songs to the list, and we’ll keep a running tab of our favorite love songs.

As promised, here is the conclusion to Rich Santos of Marie Claire’s analysis on why men disappear. Read, comment, and of course share.

Today our focus shifts to those (un)precious moments immediately following a breakup. For some, it’s fairly easy to move on. But for others, well let’s just say the idea of starting over is much tougher to handle. Robin Thicke’s “Loving You,” addresses his own fear of no longer having that familiar love in his life.

I ran across this two-part relationship feature from Marie Claire’s Rich Santos. In it, he dissects his own dating life in an attempt to discover why men disappear. Check out what he uncovered.

So much has been made of Keri Hilson’s emergence onto the music scene over the past year. Women appear to dig her style, while men…well let’s just say we value her many assets (thank you Lord.) To be perfectly honest with you though, I can’t really remember this much anticipation surrounding an artist since my neighborhood held candlelight vigils prayerfully awaiting the end of Vanilla Ice’s career.

The time has come for me to complete my two-part “All The Good Men Aren’t Taken” series. In case you missed it, last week I began to dispel the widespread myth that single black women currently have no viable dating options.

Dear Fly Guy, Look man, I need some advice. How much arguing is a man supposed to take before he leaves? I know there are problems and issues in every relationship, and I’m not expecting sunny days every day. But I also really can’t stand the rain.

Dear Mom, I remember you telling me to write down a list of my goals. “Write the vision,” is what you told me. Well I followed your instructions, and I’m proud to say that one of my goals has officially been checked off of my impossibly long list.

Money and relationships can at times be a toxic combination. But when addressed properly, money can be used as a tool to advance and enrich the relational experience. Check out one man’s attempt to do just that.