The Beauty Of You
Jun 25th, 2008 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Perspectives
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I need someone out there to really open up their heart and hear me out. I’m not sure who this is supposed to help, but I wouldn’t be me if I kept this within.
There have been times during life’s journey where I’ve honestly felt like I had nothing left to give. It may have been a week where I didn’t get an encouraging word, or a pat on the back. Or it could have been that I had received rejection in the form of someone not appreciating what I bring to the table. But each time I found myself down and out, a burst of energy or some form of inspiration would come to me from an unlikely source. Through those moments, I ultimately gained the resolve to keep moving forward.
In my heart, I know there’s someone reading this who may be seconds away from giving up on love. You’ve poured your heart out, given your all, and where has it gotten you? Nowhere, but alone and frustrated. So today I’m here to serve as that needed source of inspiration. I think you’re wonderful. And one day that special person will come along, recognize that, and fulfill your wildest dreams. Just continue to be the great person that you are, and the rest will fall into place.
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Hey… I think I was one of those folks ready to give up. I met a guy last year and we started to date and I felt like it was going great… you know, the cat meow and pajamas. We’d been together (dating) for 5 months and I thought I loved this guy. But there were a few red flags… his failure to commit (he wanted to date exclusively, but not say we are a couple, you know boyfriend/girlfriend..). He also spent a huge amount of time with the family and friends and No… I was never invited. So, one cay I pressed him about everything and he came at me on some “I think we should be friends…” So, needless to say, I was kinda crushed. I had given this man my all, my attention, my heart. And he gave me nothing. However…. a little more than a month later, I met a wonderful man, who actually pursued me and wanted to do the commitment thing, even though I was a little gun shy. And he was “willing to wait” until I was ready (if you follow). He and I are together, coming up on six months of coupledom. We’ve had our rough patches, but we’ve survived. I love him and he loves me. I agree with you on this post. Don’t give up on it… it’ll come.
Side note: I read your page everyday as a part of my morning routine. Thanks for the insight.
CB
I’ve always been hesitant about relationships. If I did mistakenly slip into one, one eye was always on the escape route and I usually took it. In my last relationship, I gave my all. I worked at it. Committed more, did more, opened up more than I ever had before. Yet he still wanted more than I was prepared to give, and the relationship ended. I was torn inside, mentally/emotionally damaged, started to doubt myself. My independence and confidence have never allowed that. The scars from that are still with me, and I’m not prepared to risk my heart again.
i feel u reina…
It’s hard not to give up on love in the world we live in today. It seems that the morals that a relationship was built on have disappeared without a trace. I am really trying my hardest to not give up on love. but Loneliness
is a misable company. I think this post is very encouraging. So I digress.
Thanks
I’ve viewed so many blog sites but, I’ve never became a member until I came across yours. It’s really nice to have a males point of view on the issues that we face when dealing with men.
Now for the issue at hand. Lol Love sucks, I so much want to believe that their are some good men left in this world. You give your all in a relationship to only have your heart broken so, yes it’s hard to have faith in love. However. the funny thing is I’m still waiting and willing let love in when that special someone comes along.