No one wants to be cheated on … and I mean no one. In fact, I can’t think of a single thing more painful than discovering that your loved one is intimately involved with someone else. (Well maybe watching a movie starring Ben Affleck …that’s also pretty painful.)
But Affleck’s poor acting aside, this whole cheating concept has really been on my mind a lot lately. It probably has something to do with the countless emails I get from those either currently going through or just coming out of a relationship filled with lies and infidelity. Now I know in the past we’ve discussed the proper response when you uncover a cheater. But we’ve never dealt with one very extreme circumstance—the one where you actually catch them in the act. What would you do? Vote, and then explain your reasoning.

Tae
If I caught my girl in the bed with another dude, I’d call 911 first and tell them to come and pick up two bodies. Does that answer your question?
The Fly Guy
Sounds like your mind is pretty made up on that one Tae…
Tee
I’d walk back out cuz I wouldn’t even want to play myself by acting a fool, unless the dude I know the dude & he knew that was my girl. Other than that f*ck them !
chrissy snow
lmao that damn poll is a lie, know damn well 53% ain’t just bout to walk out…..they trying to be all innocent and modest by saying no, i wouldn’t act a fool @ all, i’d just walk back out the door, well them ppl are way bigger than me cause yeah imma walk out, into my kitchen to get something to slice they ass up with…..
The Fly Guy
Chrissy…I was waiting on you. And that was the answer that I pretty much expected :-)
brniiiz44
This happened years ago, but I kinda caught them in the act, and I kinda walked out! The only reason I didn’t catch them was because he had to answer the door however…..he told me he was gonna finish what I interrupted and once I made it in the house, he went straight to the bedroom and got in the bed with her! I went to the kithchen and made noise in the drawer with the utensils as if to get a knife(he wasn’t worth going to jail) and told him they had to leave. This was not my house. He lived there. On his way out with her, he told me to go home. When I asked why, he said…so you won’t have sex with anyone!! LOL!
The Fly Guy
wow…I can’t believe you actually sat there while there were doing it.
Just a Thought
brniiiz, you actually conversed with that fool? I’m sorry, I don’t deign to think what I would have done had I ever caught any of my exes in the act with someone else. I cut the fool when I simply found evidence of cheating. I’m happy to say that I’ve grown beyond that, but it took A LOT of prayer and hard work.
Just passin' by
You can TRUST that mister cheater would turn up missing! It’s already painfull to find out someone’s cheating, but finding them in bed together…HELL NAW!
umm...yeah
I would have walked out… to find some shit I could beat them hoes with and not have to go to jail. Kitchen cabinet for spices/seasonings/herbs - I know some of that shit has to make you itch for days — [is itching powder real? lol]. I would paprika the fuck out of their bare asses, beat his ass and yell at the bitch like “don’t try to leave now, hoe”…
I wouldn’t just walk out cuz that would have to be the end of it, and I would definitely get the last word!!
brniiiz44
trust, in the end, I won! His life went totally down hill!
The Fly Guy
I’m glad it worked out for you in the end. But still, the way you described it going down seemed VERY disrespectful … to say the least.
brniiiz44
It was VERY disrepectful! I was young and he was my first boyfriend and yes a dog. All men “are not dogs” but this one was. Check this…he actually said and I quote…”I thought I was God’s gift to woman” until you broke up with me! IIIIIIIIIII,LOL!