
Here’s a hypothetical question. Let’s say I met you one evening, and the chemistry between us was about as intense as Al Sharpton’s infatuation for lye relaxers. What would it take for you to come home with me? Well if I was R&B star John Legend, I’d probably use some of the lyrics in his newest single “Green Light,” which features Andre 3000 to convince you.
So in the spirit of the song, here’s our Fly Guy question of the day: Would you ever have a one night stand? And if so, under what conditions?

yes
i had one, i was really horny(been a while) and drunk
he just got lucky cuz i never imagined myself doin that and dont plan on lettin it happen again
mandii
I have before. I wasn’t drunk, but much like ‘yes’, I was over due.
I don’t know how true this is for other women, but I have a tendency to decide whether or not I’d sleep with a guy not long after meeting him. Then placing him in the Yes, No or Perhaps category. That doesn’t necessarily mean that I have an interest in taking it there. Its just one of those “hmm, I wonder” kinda things. And the Yes Box doesn’t make the guy a shoe~in, lol. Because the moment he says/does something to turn me off, into the No he goes. Again, that doesn’t mean “I was going to sleep with you, now I’m not”…Its more of a, “I no longer consider you a candidate”.
Anywho…The whole one~night~stand thing seems rather reckless to me these days. I wouldn’t do it. My well~being is much more important than sexual gratification.
chrissy snow
had a one night stand yall with a dude who wasn’t even my type????? he was short skinny, matter fact he was tiny like T.I. ewwwwww lmao now that i think of it and today no i would never have a one night stand cause a.) i am married and b.)i don’t wanna chance getting a disease and DYING….
Bahama
I agree with mandi about knowing if i’d sleep with guy shortly after meeting. I have a kiss test too.
But nope never did a one night stand, can’t say it won’t ever happen though enough tequila and a drought i’d be liable to do anything.
the song is hot too
Bahama
LMAO
Stop following me chrissy!
chrissy snow
bammy, i am number 3 you number 4, you following me missy lmao
Ambrosiality
lol I’ve been listening to this song, and been inlove with it.
LOL I never thought it was about cheating!
well If i meet a guy, and he’s absolutely beautiful, & the chemistry was crazy i might & Id pray i dont catch anything (but from past experiences I’ve gone with the guy to get tested, so I really doubt)
songbird
@mandii: yeah, I think everyone pretty much sizes everyone up within the first few moments of meeting someone. And like you said, none of it’s set in stone, but a place to start.
Been there, done that with the 1-night stands. I’m not a huge proponent of it, but sometimes a girl just needs it. Especially if you’ve been single for a while, sometimes you just need to feel some sort of closeness with someone, even though you know it’s fake (remember Whitney in Waiting to Exhale?). Or, you’ve just been sippin too much of the syrup. LOL But seriously, sometimes the chemistry can just be overwhelming. I’ve had 3 in my life, and 2 (My ex-fiance and a past boyfriend) turned out to be much more than that. It’s all in how you go about it, I guess.
The Fly Guy
Yeah I think many of us have been there and done that when it comes to the one night stand. The problem with that nowadays is the safety of it all. It’s so dangerous out here right now. And that’s not just with the 178,654 sexually transmitted diseases that can make your private parts fall off in the toilet, but let’s not overlook the most dangerous part of the one-night stand…the fact that you may sleep with a crazy,, and not be able to get rid of them…lol
Eb
I have this song on heavy heavy rotation right now…
tsagrednerp
Flyguy you funny as hell… I’m too scared of diseases and such to even contemplate anything like that. Ambrosiality said it though if the chemistry is off the chain there’s nithin to it but to do it… ;-)
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