I have found myself increasingly impressed with the way people express their fascination with love and relationships. In fact, I believe I enjoy it more than gravity finds pleasure in tugging at Bobby Brown’s bottom lip. Well, my feelings and his hanging lip aside, I think it’s time for me to release the third installment of Love Quotables—a collection of my favorite love-based quotes from around the world.

Dear Fly Guy, The last three women that I have been romantically involved with have all been married. The first two both got a divorce and we had a regular relationship, but neither worked out. This most recent one hasn’t turned romantic yet, but I’m pretty sure it will head in that direction. What I want to know is why do I keep ending up with women who aren’t single?

There comes a time in every man or woman’s life when enough is enough. You opened up to someone and trusted them, eventually exposing yourself in ways you promised you’d never do again. And what did you get in return? Heartache and disappointment. In the end, you just threw your hands up in despair, confused as to what you did to deserve such a cruel fate. Sound familiar?

I spend the majority of my days working to infuse equal amounts of sound advice and smart humor into this column. More often then not, things work out beautifully; but there are times when…well let’s just say that my approach doesn’t quite work out in the way that I intended.

Once upon a time, you could look your loved one in the eyes and say, “I love you, and need you in my life….please don’t go.” And more often than not, she would stay. But those days are long gone, as love has suddenly become more complicated than the time I tried to learn the names of Flava Flav’s kids (Hey, I actually did better than him.)

Are you capable of loving someone unconditionally? If your answer was yes, then I want you to watch the following video. After you finish, ask yourself that same question again. Could you really stay with your loved one if they did something like this? Let me know what’s up.