Comments on: Jay-Z & Beyonce…I do or I don't? http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/ Love Advice Will Never Be The Same... Fri, 15 Jul 2011 17:58:14 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.4 By: ubringmejoi http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-349 ubringmejoi Thu, 17 Apr 2008 03:39:57 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-349 I'm happy for them! I think that when people put dates and times on things that if you are not ready then you will run for the hills but if you then, "Tell me when and I'll be there!" If you both are in it then you will know when you are ready, just don't ever rush into anything because of other people! I’m happy for them! I think that when people put dates and times on things that if you are not ready then you will run for the hills but if you then, “Tell me when and I’ll be there!” If you both are in it then you will know when you are ready, just don’t ever rush into anything because of other people!

]]> By: THE fly GIRL http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-348 THE fly GIRL Tue, 15 Apr 2008 15:31:40 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-348 Here's the things, well two things actually: 1. ANY relationship, be romantic, platonic, spiritual, or simply banging in dark spaces, all relationships should be about the experience and not the outcome. What is your relationship teaching you about yourself? What is it feeding you? Are BOTH you and the other person growing? Enjoying it? Becoming better BECAUSE of it? That's what relationships are about. So if you've been with someone for two years and all your focused on is "Where is this heading" then you've missed the point of the last 24 months. 2. Jay-Z and Beyonce didn't get married. Shaw Carter and Beyonce Knowles stood before their family and friends and asked God to bless and accept their union. And THAT is not open to the public. I'm proud of them for bein' real about it. And taking the stance of "This aspect of our lives is not for sale," although I'm sure Matthew is gonna find some way to make a dollar off of it. He'll probably make Solange stage some re-enactment. Here’s the things, well two things actually:

1. ANY relationship, be romantic, platonic, spiritual, or simply banging in dark spaces, all relationships should be about the experience and not the outcome.

What is your relationship teaching you about yourself? What is it feeding you? Are BOTH you and the other person growing? Enjoying it? Becoming better BECAUSE of it? That’s what relationships are about. So if you’ve been with someone for two years and all your focused on is “Where is this heading” then you’ve missed the point of the last 24 months.

2. Jay-Z and Beyonce didn’t get married. Shaw Carter and Beyonce Knowles stood before their family and friends and asked God to bless and accept their union. And THAT is not open to the public. I’m proud of them for bein’ real about it. And taking the stance of “This aspect of our lives is not for sale,” although I’m sure Matthew is gonna find some way to make a dollar off of it. He’ll probably make Solange stage some re-enactment.

]]> By: chrissy snow http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-347 chrissy snow Tue, 15 Apr 2008 15:11:10 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-347 well i agree with what most the people here been saying bey and jay are them, lol they are their own couple with they own issues inside that relationship, and everyone is different congrats to em..... well i agree with what most the people here been saying bey and jay are them, lol they are their own couple with they own issues inside that relationship, and everyone is different congrats to em…..

]]> By: Jazz http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-346 Jazz Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:41:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-346 I'm happy 4 them. Me personally tho couldn't wait that long. Hell naw. I’m happy 4 them. Me personally tho couldn’t wait that long. Hell naw.

]]> By: Tago_45 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-345 Tago_45 Tue, 15 Apr 2008 12:40:37 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-345 I agree with Mona. Jay-Z and Beyonce's time together isn't like everyone else's. It probably didn't feel that long to them. I agree with Mona. Jay-Z and Beyonce’s time together isn’t like everyone else’s. It probably didn’t feel that long to them.

]]> By: Chris W. http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-344 Chris W. Mon, 14 Apr 2008 23:31:32 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-344 I think when its right you just "know". And I can agree that when women ask for dates and timelines, it makes us run for the hills faster than Jed Clampett with his shotgun shooting for some food. Just let things happen, usually most of the time, we have a plan. I think when its right you just “know”. And I can agree that when women ask for dates and timelines, it makes us run for the hills faster than Jed Clampett with his shotgun shooting for some food. Just let things happen, usually most of the time, we have a plan.

]]> By: MONA MAGUIRE juss n the nicc of time http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-343 MONA MAGUIRE juss n the nicc of time Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:57:08 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-343 UHHHH. HELLO? THATS JAY AND B OKAY ...THEIR 6 YEARS DONT EVEN REALLY SEEM LIKE 6 YEARS... FIRST OFF THEY'RE FAR FROM STRUGGLIN AND TIME FIES WHEN UR HAVING FUN ... THEY HAVE HAD TIME TO NURTURE AND GROW and come into realization of their destinys... SECOND THEY ARE HELLA BUSY JUGGLIN VERY SERIOUS AND DEMANDING CAREERS SO IF THIS IS THE TIME GOD HAS SET FOR MOVE THEM ON THEN HOW CAN ANY ARGUE WITH THAT? IF IT TOOK SIX YEARS OBVIOUSLY THOSE WERE YEARS THAT STOOD THE TEST OF TIME.church UHHHH. HELLO? THATS JAY AND B OKAY …THEIR 6 YEARS DONT EVEN REALLY SEEM LIKE 6 YEARS… FIRST OFF THEY’RE FAR FROM STRUGGLIN AND TIME FIES WHEN UR HAVING FUN … THEY HAVE HAD TIME TO NURTURE AND GROW and come into realization of their destinys… SECOND THEY ARE HELLA BUSY JUGGLIN VERY SERIOUS AND DEMANDING CAREERS SO IF THIS IS THE TIME GOD HAS SET FOR MOVE THEM ON THEN HOW CAN ANY ARGUE WITH THAT? IF IT TOOK SIX YEARS OBVIOUSLY THOSE WERE YEARS THAT STOOD THE TEST OF TIME.church

]]> By: Johnnice http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-342 Johnnice Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:27:31 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-342 If I'm dating a guy for two years, and he hasn't even mentioned marriage, I'm out the door! I'm not going to be strung along by anyone. Fuck that! If I’m dating a guy for two years, and he hasn’t even mentioned marriage, I’m out the door! I’m not going to be strung along by anyone. Fuck that!

]]> By: G. Dep http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-341 G. Dep Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:25:56 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-341 Hell I don't think he's dumb. I'd wait around for Bey too...lmao!!! Hell I don’t think he’s dumb. I’d wait around for Bey too…lmao!!!

]]> By: Ina http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-340 Ina Mon, 14 Apr 2008 20:24:00 +0000 http://www.flyguychronicles.com/2008/04/14/jay-z-beyonce-i-do-or-i-dont/#comment-340 @ DC You sound real ignit. To all sensible people here, I think that time constraints are what tear relationships apart. Once you start pressuring a man or a woman to settle down, that's when the trouble begins. Just relax, and like John Legend said, "Take It Slow!" @ DC

You sound real ignit. To all sensible people here, I think that time constraints are what tear relationships apart. Once you start pressuring a man or a woman to settle down, that’s when the trouble begins. Just relax, and like John Legend said, “Take It Slow!”

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