Have You Ever Lost Control?

Apr 19th, 2008 | Author: The Fly Guy | Category: Fly Features
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We’ve all been guilty of losing control with the one we love. And as much as I’ve searched for an explanation as to why this feeling randomly comes about, I’m admittedly at a loss. When you think about it, there’s really not a foolproof method for detecting when it’s going to overtake you. But when it does, watch out, as all you can think about is…well I really don’t have to go into detail do I?

With that being said, has there ever been a time when you were out at some important function when this “lose control” feeling came over you? If so, how did you handle it? Were you able to fight the feeling, or did you signal to your loved one that it was time to go? Let me know.

Now you know I couldn’t discuss this without bringing Silk, the masters of losing control, along for the ride. Peep the video. Now that’s what I call top shelf R&B.


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  1. 1
    Kia says:

    FG, I remember this performance! Wow, talk about taking me back. As far as your question, I have certainly been in those lose control situations before. There’s just something about seeing my man in a suit being professional that makes me want to rip his clothes off of him. As soon as we catch each other’s eyes, he knows that it’s time to start saying goodbye to people, LMAO!

  2. 2
    Reggie Boy says:

    Yo that brought me back to sneaking trying to watch that on Saturday night and my momma yelling, “Turn off that trash, running up my cable bill….If you don’t turn off my TV, I’m going to lose control all over your head!” Just had a flashback….

  3. 3
    Marquis says:

    That happens damn near every day with me and my girl

  4. 4
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    I LOOSE CONTROL ON A REGULAR, CAUSE I AM A NYPHM, LMAO FOR MY HUSBAND THO, JUST HIM……

  5. 5
    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy says:

    lol…that’s real Chrissy

  6. 6
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    lol thanks (i guess) FG…..every man needs a nymph in they life least once, you know that chick that don’t give a damn, she down for whatever, whenever, however…..

  7. 7
    Justin says:

    *whispering* umm Chrissy. Can I hire you to be my wife’s life coach? I need her to think just like you.

  8. 8
    Raven says:

    LOL @ Justin haha…How about at thanksgiving at your date’s moms house in her backroom? Does that count as losing control LOL

  9. 9
    Teri says:

    @Raven

    Now I’m not expert, but I think that applies. Oooh if they woulda caught you, they woulda thought you were the biggest ho! Know how I know? Happened to me! Hahaha!

  10. 10
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    lol @ Justin, iono, i am kinda ’spensive, joking….. i charge 20g’s a session, lmao joking again….i am tripping don’t mind me Justin, if ya wife loves ya and you ask her nice enough, i am sure she will get down with the freaky program, and that lil piece of advice was on the house….normally i charge 5g’s to drop knowledge like that, so consider ya’self lucky…..lmao

  11. 11
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    lmao @ teri, why i think this whole post full of under cover freaks?????

  12. 12
    Teri says:

    Girl because it probably is! Lord knows I stopped trying to fight it long time ago. I became one with the freak in me! LMAO!

  13. 13
    Justin says:

    LMFAO @ everyone in this post! And Chrissy ur waaaaayyy too expensive! I need to figure out a way for you to bump into her randomnly. LOL

    @ Teri- I’m glad you have stepped out of the darkness, and into the freaky light! LMAO

  14. 14
    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy says:

    (Praying)

    Lord,

    I know that I asked you to send me more readers who were silly as me. But I didn’t think it would be like this…lol

  15. 15
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    lmmfao okay so we all freaks that is established……

    @ Justin, i am willing to lower my fees, but that’s gon be an xtra fee to lower the original fee…..lol

    and @ Fly Guy, go to my blog with my patna in crime, and you will see how silly, stoopid, crazeeeeeee we really are…..

    2 Ditzy Broads, google it we pops up….

  16. 16
    Bahama says:

    *whispers* i don’t know who chrissy is OR why she got that site up…lol

    as for lose’n control i’m pretty sure i haven’t..lol

  17. 17
    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy says:

    To Bahama…I really don’t think we believe you. Especially since you’re over there whispering. That’s a classic sign of someone who loses control ALL THE TIME…lol.

  18. 18
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    i can’t believe bammy acting like she don’t know me…..HEY YO, BAMAMA, WHAT IT DO…..I KNOW YOU REMEMBER ME, WE SHARE A BLOG, REMEMBER????? lmao

    and fly guy, bammy’s a good girl (i think) she never loses control (i don’t guess) if she did she would tell me (i think) lol

  19. 19
    Bahama says:

    tee hee, no i just talk softly. and i haven’t “lost control” in a while

  20. 20
    Bahama says:

    *thinks to self* OMG is she actually addressing me? i mean she talking to me like she knows me.LMAO just playing

  21. 21
    CHRISSY SNOW says:

    *thinks to self* OMG is she actually addressing me? i mean she talking to me like she knows me.LMAO just playing
    ^^^^^ lmmfao okay i just died don’t even try to resuscitate me…..

  22. 22
    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy says:

    Oh Ok Bahama. I believe you.

    **Turning my back so the two of them can’t hear me**

    “Yeah right. We all know the real deal.”

    To Chrissy-

    If you say she’s a good girl, then I believe you. Especially the part about her never losing control. Because like the old saying goes, Birds of a feather, never flock together…lol

  23. 23
    Starbucks512 says:

    If I with someone I love. I love to make losing control a habit. Keeps it fresh and brand new. I’ve been busted only once. Nosey a$$ Neighbors !!!

  24. 24
    Raven says:

    LOL @ Teri..we didn’t get caught becuz he kept his hand in my mouth to quiet…yea but his mama def wuda put her foot in my azz if she found out it was me who messed up her couch cushions LOL..

  25. 25
    Kaliente says:

    Chrissy!!!!!!! BAMA!!!!! FLy Guyyy(nah u don’t know me…LMAO) So this is where the party is that had me over there trippin out by myself huh??? OKAY OKAY I can control myself…ah dayum i am lyin, i have been caught b4 by granny granny it was the WORST feeling in the world…i used to be straight ratchet when it came to mine…lol *singin* ANYTIME….and any place I don’t care whos around….

  26. 26
    LeAnne says:

    I’m a Capricorn so losing control for me is like Kryptonite. I went off and completely fought my ex in the club because he was messing with a girl right in front of my face and just laughed. I promised myself, “never again!” and I’ve left boys and their fuckery right where they stand. I like your site alot. I don’t write much advice on my blog but I do write more of an advice and social commentary on my facebook. Let me know if you ever need a “fly girl’s” no-nonsence, keep-it-real…classy take on dating.
    hairsmystory.com



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