Have You Ever Lost Control?

Apr 19th, 2008 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Features
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We’ve all been guilty of losing control with the one we love. And as much as I’ve searched for an explanation as to why this feeling randomly comes about, I’m admittedly at a loss. When you think about it, there’s really not a foolproof method for detecting when it’s going to overtake you. But when it does, watch out, as all you can think about is…well I really don’t have to go into detail do I?

With that being said, has there ever been a time when you were out at some important function when this “lose control” feeling came over you? If so, how did you handle it? Were you able to fight the feeling, or did you signal to your loved one that it was time to go? Let me know.

Now you know I couldn’t discuss this without bringing Silk, the masters of losing control, along for the ride. Peep the video. Now that’s what I call top shelf R&B.


Lose Control(Live)
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  • Kia

    FG, I remember this performance! Wow, talk about taking me back. As far as your question, I have certainly been in those lose control situations before. There’s just something about seeing my man in a suit being professional that makes me want to rip his clothes off of him. As soon as we catch each other’s eyes, he knows that it’s time to start saying goodbye to people, LMAO!

  • Reggie Boy

    Yo that brought me back to sneaking trying to watch that on Saturday night and my momma yelling, “Turn off that trash, running up my cable bill….If you don’t turn off my TV, I’m going to lose control all over your head!” Just had a flashback….

  • Marquis

    That happens damn near every day with me and my girl

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    I LOOSE CONTROL ON A REGULAR, CAUSE I AM A NYPHM, LMAO FOR MY HUSBAND THO, JUST HIM……

  • http://www.flyguychronicles.com The Fly Guy

    lol…that’s real Chrissy

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    lol thanks (i guess) FG…..every man needs a nymph in they life least once, you know that chick that don’t give a damn, she down for whatever, whenever, however…..

  • Justin

    *whispering* umm Chrissy. Can I hire you to be my wife’s life coach? I need her to think just like you.

  • Raven

    LOL @ Justin haha…How about at thanksgiving at your date’s moms house in her backroom? Does that count as losing control LOL

  • Teri

    @Raven

    Now I’m not expert, but I think that applies. Oooh if they woulda caught you, they woulda thought you were the biggest ho! Know how I know? Happened to me! Hahaha!

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    lol @ Justin, iono, i am kinda ‘spensive, joking….. i charge 20g’s a session, lmao joking again….i am tripping don’t mind me Justin, if ya wife loves ya and you ask her nice enough, i am sure she will get down with the freaky program, and that lil piece of advice was on the house….normally i charge 5g’s to drop knowledge like that, so consider ya’self lucky…..lmao

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    lmao @ teri, why i think this whole post full of under cover freaks?????

  • Teri

    Girl because it probably is! Lord knows I stopped trying to fight it long time ago. I became one with the freak in me! LMAO!

  • Justin

    LMFAO @ everyone in this post! And Chrissy ur waaaaayyy too expensive! I need to figure out a way for you to bump into her randomnly. LOL

    @ Teri- I’m glad you have stepped out of the darkness, and into the freaky light! LMAO

  • http://www.flyguychronicles.com The Fly Guy

    (Praying)

    Lord,

    I know that I asked you to send me more readers who were silly as me. But I didn’t think it would be like this…lol

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    lmmfao okay so we all freaks that is established……

    @ Justin, i am willing to lower my fees, but that’s gon be an xtra fee to lower the original fee…..lol

    and @ Fly Guy, go to my blog with my patna in crime, and you will see how silly, stoopid, crazeeeeeee we really are…..

    2 Ditzy Broads, google it we pops up….

  • http://twoditzybroads.blogspot.com/ Bahama

    *whispers* i don’t know who chrissy is OR why she got that site up…lol

    as for lose’n control i’m pretty sure i haven’t..lol

  • http://www.flyguychronicles.com The Fly Guy

    To Bahama…I really don’t think we believe you. Especially since you’re over there whispering. That’s a classic sign of someone who loses control ALL THE TIME…lol.

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    i can’t believe bammy acting like she don’t know me…..HEY YO, BAMAMA, WHAT IT DO…..I KNOW YOU REMEMBER ME, WE SHARE A BLOG, REMEMBER????? lmao

    and fly guy, bammy’s a good girl (i think) she never loses control (i don’t guess) if she did she would tell me (i think) lol

  • http://twoditzybroads.blogspot.com/ Bahama

    tee hee, no i just talk softly. and i haven’t “lost control” in a while

  • http://twoditzybroads.blogspot.com/ Bahama

    *thinks to self* OMG is she actually addressing me? i mean she talking to me like she knows me.LMAO just playing

  • CHRISSY SNOW

    *thinks to self* OMG is she actually addressing me? i mean she talking to me like she knows me.LMAO just playing
    ^^^^^ lmmfao okay i just died don’t even try to resuscitate me…..

  • http://www.flyguychronicles.com The Fly Guy

    Oh Ok Bahama. I believe you.

    **Turning my back so the two of them can’t hear me**

    “Yeah right. We all know the real deal.”

    To Chrissy-

    If you say she’s a good girl, then I believe you. Especially the part about her never losing control. Because like the old saying goes, Birds of a feather, never flock together…lol

  • Starbucks512

    If I with someone I love. I love to make losing control a habit. Keeps it fresh and brand new. I’ve been busted only once. Nosey a$$ Neighbors !!!

  • Raven

    LOL @ Teri..we didn’t get caught becuz he kept his hand in my mouth to quiet…yea but his mama def wuda put her foot in my azz if she found out it was me who messed up her couch cushions LOL..

  • Kaliente

    Chrissy!!!!!!! BAMA!!!!! FLy Guyyy(nah u don’t know me…LMAO) So this is where the party is that had me over there trippin out by myself huh??? OKAY OKAY I can control myself…ah dayum i am lyin, i have been caught b4 by granny granny it was the WORST feeling in the world…i used to be straight ratchet when it came to mine…lol *singin* ANYTIME….and any place I don’t care whos around….

  • http://www.hairsmystory.com LeAnne

    I’m a Capricorn so losing control for me is like Kryptonite. I went off and completely fought my ex in the club because he was messing with a girl right in front of my face and just laughed. I promised myself, “never again!” and I’ve left boys and their fuckery right where they stand. I like your site alot. I don’t write much advice on my blog but I do write more of an advice and social commentary on my facebook. Let me know if you ever need a “fly girl’s” no-nonsence, keep-it-real…classy take on dating.
    hairsmystory.com