Comments on: 5 Signs That She's Not Interested

By: LaughingEyes

LaughingEyes — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:15:16 +0000

the exact five reasons given in the article-5 Signs That She’s Not Interested- can also be applied to the women.
#1 and #3 in this article could also be that she likes you too much: she does not trust herself to be alone with you especially if the relationship is new. i know i have done this with a guy i really liked and wanted to build something solid with. because i wanted to develop a friendship and lay the foundation for a spiritual and emotional connection, i always had someone join us for any house-bound activities or late night outings. the physical attraction was that intense- if i was not deafened by the beating pulse of my own heart every time he got close i could hear the drum beat of his heart. true story.

By: TaurusLady

TaurusLady — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 03:20:16 +0000

Wow, the signs are so true. I’ve been guilty (and still am) of #4 and #5. #4 was my favourite line to say back in high school, although the dudes that were interested in me saw that as a challenge to sway my decision…not cool. Stalker-ish, even. #5 should be the ultimate sign for a guy to know a woman’s not interested. I mean, if I’m really interested in a dude, I’ll drop everthing I’m doing to talk to him on the phone or call him back ASAP. I’ll finish a research paper while I’m on the phone if I have to!

By: mandii

mandii — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 19:46:04 +0000

I’ll admit…When it comes to numbers 4 & 5, I’m a total repeat offender =x

4 is almost always door number one. Its after the guy makes up in his mind that he is going to convince me that he’s The One, that I go on to number 5. Which can sometimes be total wreckage. I’ve had guys call everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, for as long as a month =/

By: D. T.

D. T. — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 20:57:00 +0000

I know I’m late. But this is great! I’m in a similar situation like this. But the only sign of the 5 described that I have seen is 6. However, her response usually is – “I’m waiting for 3 years or so to get into a relationship.” At the same time, she spends virtually all of her time with me.

By: CCGroovy

CCGroovy — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 23:44:57 +0000

TRUE.TRUE. ALL 2 very true. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt, featured in the brochure, starred in the info-mercial.

By: Sweetie

Sweetie — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 22:32:15 +0000

Fly Guy you are a trip!

By: mzvirgo

mzvirgo — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 02:45:58 +0000

Fly Guy, this was a great post. I’m going to have to come here more often.

By: Mike

Mike — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 16:49:50 +0000

I think a key sign is the day of the week she’s available to you. If she’s given you Mon-thurs and never around on weekends, thats a bad sign. Every man wants a prime night (Fri-Sat, maybe even Sun). It’s possible you be filling in the “gap” of her other dudes. I’m just sayin…

Another sign is never receiving any “unsolictited” calls. If you continiously have to be the one to reach out first…thats a bad sign as well. It’s not hard ot figure out. What happened to the old school days when getting a phone number meant you were “in”. Cell phones have messed everything up…lol.

By: Chris W.

Chris W. — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 05:05:18 +0000

@Dream of Drea

Lol…No, I don’t think I want to go down that path. The roadway down the path of heartache and destruction is usually begun with the simplest of gestures, so don’t get me wrong of trying to get at you. You just look like someone I went high school with. That “familiar face” woman-buddy.

By: Dream of Drea

Dream of Drea — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 04:32:55 +0000

@Chris W.
Thanks for the compliment about my writing. As far as your last sentence “For some reason I think I know you…” that could be taken for a line to get at me (don’t head down the road to being one of my man-buddies Though I’ve been told I have a familiar face.