5 Signs That She's Not Interested
Apr 16th, 2008 | Author: admin | Category: The Chronicles
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Here’s the scenario. You’ve had a not-so-secret crush on this one particular girl for quite a while now. And in an attempt to get her to reciprocate those feelings, you pulled out all the stops. Let’s see: you were a gentleman, a bad boy, a best friend, and a high roller. You even tried to be this suave mystery man, but ended up confusing yourself in the process.
So what did all of this effort get you?
Absolutely nothing…except for maybe broke, frustrated, and alone. If you could have just seen the signs, then you would have known up front that she wasn’t interested in you…which would have saved you precious time, energy, and of course money. But hindsight is 20/20, and you’ll be better prepared the next time around with these “5 Signs That She’s Not Interested.”
1. She never meets you alone.
You may have been thinking to yourself, “Why is one of her girlfriends always with her?” Well the answer is pretty simple. By bringing a friend along, she never gives you a clear-cut opening to make any type of romantic play on her. It also gives her a nice escape plan since,
“I have to drop my girlfriend off at her man’s house…I’m sorry. I knew we should have driven separate cars.”
Yeah right…
2. She brings up other women.
An obvious sign that she’s not feeling you is when she starts bringing up other women. It probably goes down a little something like this: The two of you are hanging out at some chic lounge sharing a drink. As soon as you start to make your move, she breaks the mood by saying,
“Oooh, she’s cute. You should get her number.” Thud.
Once this happens, your internal alarm should be going off. Why? Because she’s just let you know that you probably have a better chance at proving Michael Jackson is the real father of his kids than you do at being her man.
3. She avoids any romantic setting.
Have you ever noticed how she’s never available to meet you for dinner…and I mean never? She’s either tired from work, hanging with her girls, or busy volunteering at the Gary Coleman “We’re All Big In Spirit” Shelter For Disadvantaged Little People.
Here’s a news flash: She’s really not that busy. She just doesn’t want to engage in anything that remotely resembles a date.
4. She keeps saying she’s not looking for someone.
Here’s a not so subtle hint that she may not be interested in you. Whenever the word relationship comes up, she’s quick to point out that,
“I’m not looking for someone right now.”
What’s funny is you could have been talking about the “relationship” between the war in Iraq and high gas prices, but it’s almost as if she’s on autopilot. As soon as the word relationship leaves your mouth, she’s programmed to give you the exact same answer…”I’m not looking for someone right now.”
5. She never answers or returns your calls.
Whenever you’re around, she always seems to be on the phone. Whenever you call though, she answers her phone about as often as The Commodores released hit records after Lionel left. Even when you do get her on the phone, she’s always in the middle of something, and says that she’ll call you right back…she never does.
The Fly Guy Moral
I know it’s hard for you to accept the fact that this woman is not interested in you. After all, your senior class in high school did vote you “Most Likely To Never Be Turned Down.” But hey, look on the bright side. You can now spend your time pursuing someone who is actually up for the chase. At the end of the day, who cares if she didn’t want you? She probably wasn’t right for you in the first place.
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