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Fly Poll- Would You Cheat?

As I prepare for my annual series on cheating, I felt the need to get the pulse of the people. For most, the prospect of getting caught is enough to steer you away from actually being unfaithful. But what if there was absolutely no way that you could get caught? And I mean absolutely, as in you have a better chance at getting Stevie Wonder a part time job as a crossing guard than you do at getting caught. Would that change your stance? Let me know.

Up For Discussion

28 comments for “Fly Poll- Would You Cheat?”

  1. 1


    RAWdawg

    I didn’t vote since I cheat and don’t try to hide it. She doesn’t want this money to dry up so she ain’t going nowhere

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  2. 2


    J.C.

    @Rawdawg. Wow, that’s kind of gangsta. I’m broke so I have to watch my steps, LMAO

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  3. 3


    Adrienne

    SMH @ RD
    I wouldn’t cheat on my husband. I don’t care who its with.

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  4. 4


    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy

    Rawdawg, Rawdawg, Rawdawg…I hope they don’t hurt you too bad on here bruh..lol

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  5. 5


    Mandy

    OH NO THE HELL HE DIDN’T. I’M GLAD YOU AINT MY MAN. I’D CUT YOUR BALLS OFF!!!!

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  6. 6


    Tricky Ricky

    I’d cheat. Twice

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  7. 7


    sunshine

    lets put it this way, I cheated once in my past and it came back on me in my most recent break relationship, for me never again, and I believe in karma. and to raw…WTF. I’m gonna say it, you’re a loser. but again, if the women you deal with want you only for your money then I guess you don’t have anything that us other women really want…sooo HAVE AT IT.

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  8. 8


    Sequoia

    My bf is my bestfriend, and out of respect for our friendship, I could never cheat on him. I don’t care who it’s with. I’d have to break up with him first….and I def don’t want to do that. I’m so in love with that man :)

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
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    RAWdawg

    Sunshine,

    I’m not a loser. Just a realist. Half of these women that claim they want to be with me, only want to come up. To me that’s more immoral than me being honest about not being faithful. I’m man enough to say that I”m going to cheat. They need to be man enough to say that they are gold diggers. But like always say, “all’s fair in love and my dough.”

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  10. 10


    Chris W. Chris W.

    Depends on who its with for me. I mean think about it, if it were a situation where you could have one night with Insert Name Of Model Or Celebrity Here without your girl/guy finding out, what would you do? I tell you this much, it’d be a night me and Thelma from “Good Times” wouldn’t forget….I’d be all over it!!

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
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    T.J

    look at it this way for ever woman there is a man…hum do you think so…well what if your married and another comes along that is you match also..humm, well if there is a woman cheating then so is a man…

    Thursday, April 17, 2008
  12. 12


    CHRISSY SNOW

    lmmfao rawdawg i appreciate ya honesty……

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  13. 13


    Bahama

    LOL i wanna change what i voted for. I’m of the opinon that if you wanna test the waters then tell ur bf or gf, why cheat? If they ain’t cool with that then break up all together cause it’s obvious you don’t wanna be with them.

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  14. 14


    Starbucks512

    Karma is a bitoch and I’m done with my cheating ways.
    I think?

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  15. 15


    Miss K

    I’ve cheated. I’ve been cheated on. Karma is a bi.. , but if you are going to make up your mind to do something you have to be prepared for the consequences of your actions. I am most often than not. Right now, I’m the other woman.. helping someone cheat.. it started out as both of us cheating, but on my end.. i just broke up with the person..and you know… I don’t feel bad. I should, but I don’t. :)

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  16. 16


    The Fly Guy The Fly Guy

    @ Starbucks- U think?

    @ Miss K- is your role as the other woman just physical, or do you have a real relationship with this person?

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  17. 17


    msdebbs msdebbs

    I’ve never cheated but have been cheated on more than once and it aint a sweet feeling….my conscious would beat me down so I’ll pass…RAWdawg I really appreciate your honesty but personally I think your woman is pathetic to stay with a cheating man for his money…the risk of catching an STD is just not worth it…

    Friday, April 18, 2008
  18. 18


    Reggie Boy Reggie Boy

    Of Course I would not cheat…but Stacey Dash is looking good in the new King Magazine. Get back to me on this one.

    Saturday, April 19, 2008
  19. 19


    ODARA

    No…No…No…Cheating’s just file. Plus I’m not good @ lying, it would eat away @ my conscience & I know somehow I’d confess…

    Monday, April 21, 2008
  20. 20


    Starbucks512

    @ The Fly Guy
    If I settle down again I promised myself that I would never cheat again…. I can forgive but men cant handle it…. If I’m gone to long gotta be messing around or if guy says hello I’m sleeping with him when it’s not the case. We both were cheating. He was to complacent and took me for granted and I’m assuming he just wanted a new piece. i dont know.

    Monday, April 21, 2008
  21. 21


    Masha

    respect to RAWdawg, i’d rather deal with honest man who’d say straight that he is cheating, or is going to, than someone who is doing it behind your back and not leaving you a choice if you want to accept it or not. I don’t cheat but i’m telling honestly that i’m not interested in a guy anymore and it’s better to break up because i might meet someone i fall in love with and than i’d be cheating and i don’t want it.

    Monday, April 21, 2008
  22. 22


    ubringmejoi

    @RAWdawg. . . yeah I will second what Masha has said to you I do have to respect your honesty and if you put it out there and she is willing to deal with it then I guess you cannot be mad at that either; just as long as you both know the deal then that’s what matters! I will NEVER cheat because I NEVER want to get hurt like that and I RESPECT my man more than anything! I choose my actions and I choose to not get myself into a situation where I may be tempted at all! Nobody is worth me giving up my good thing! When you are adults you have a choice and once again I choose not to but “all is fair in love and war,” I know that there are a few that share my opinion and a few that share RAW’s. This “love thing” is like sport’s “know your role and know how to play your position”. . .”Play Ball!”

    Tuesday, April 22, 2008
  23. 23


    Leon Phelps

    cheaters never win when winners never cheat. SIKE, thats some bullshit.

    Tuesday, April 22, 2008
  24. 24


    Rollo Green

    What’s some bullshit…cheating or winners never cheating? LMAO

    Tuesday, April 22, 2008
  25. 25


    Kaliente

    I would never cheat and i have never cheated…however i have been cheated on and i know what it feels like to have your heart ripped out of your body and wanting to choke the mu’fukka who did it, as you are sitting there thinkin “this man cheated on me”….AWWWWWWWW shyt y’all i done had a flashback MY BAD..lol but nah if i love someone i wouldn’t cheat b/c like i said i know how it feels and i would never want to put my man through that.

    Tuesday, April 22, 2008
  26. 26


    Sweetie

    I’ve cheated and I’ve been cheated on and its not a good feeling.. I lost the best relationship I have had to date and the guy I cheated with treated me like dirt! So I say its karma and not worth it

    Friday, April 25, 2008
  27. 27


    Nina Nina

    Wow! Now there’s a question where the answer gives way to one’s character. My answer? A resounding “no”. I’m with ODARA. If I cheated, the guilt would eat me up and I would eventually tell on myself.

    Friday, April 25, 2008
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    datgeorgiagirl

    If you had asked me that question in high school I would have told you that I would never cheat. Not saying that I would cheat now because I’m in a committed relationship that I have been in for almost 3 years but I will say that college brings about changes (and other events for that matter ). I feel that in some situations you just don’t know what you would do until you get there which is why I answered that I plead th 5th because that decision would be dependent on many more factors than those listed.

    Saturday, May 3, 2008

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