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I Can’t Stop Dating Married Women
Dear Fly Guy,
The last three women that I have been romantically involved with have all been married. The first two both got a divorce and we had a regular relationship, but neither worked out. This most recent one hasn’t turned romantic yet, but I’m pretty sure it will head in that direction. What I want to know is why do I keep ending up with women who aren’t single? I don’t look for married women, but they just keep popping up. This most recent woman made the first move with me. Do I have a sign on my forehead or something? Help if you can.
Josh
Dear Josh,
Let me start by saying no, you do not have a sign on your forehead. But you are displaying some very visible signs of a man who’s secretly afraid of commitment. That’s the only logical explanation for your continued interest in married women. Even when you aren’t initiating the relationship, you’re still entertaining their advances, making you just as guilty as them. In my opinion, dating a married woman is about as volatile as electing both a father and son from Texas to be president…the end-result is never a good one. So if you’re really ready to engage in a meaningful relationship, then put those marital flings behind you, and start focusing on women who aren’t already spoken for. Deal?
The Fly Guy
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badgyrl
That sounds like me. I think I seek out men who aren’t available. I need to stop that. I guess that’s just my way of guarding my heart
NCnightowl
It sounds like low self worth to attach yourself to someone who is not fully committed to you. Both are wrong in this situation, but some people like the drama, and feel that they are the chosen on e/special/better than the spouse. If the relationship is built on lies/cheating, it will not work.
Chris W.
Can the same thing be said about having the propensity to date big girls and women with kids? Not asking for me, nah, nah….Just asking.
Reggie Boy
Sure Chris W… You know you like a girl about 215 with 3 kids and a dog.
J Smooth
lmao @ Reggie Boy!!!
Raven
Having sex with a married woman is one thing but having a relationship with a married woman is another thing..and its stupid…if she’s cheating on her husband to be with u..what makes u think she wont do the same thing to you?
chrissy snow
ummmmm to the josh cat, do you know these women are married b4 hand, i mean you don’t see a rock on they finger???? and if you do know, why not just stop it before it get too deep???? hope you find a woman one day that is truly YOUR WOMAN and nobody elses’s…good luck
Wanda B.
To Raven: What do you mean having sex with a married woman is woman thing???????? Are you saying that’s ok? It’s all wrong if you ask me.
Raven
yea i agree its all wrong but this guy said some of his married women divorced their husbands to be with him. Im just saying why would he trust these women and even try to build something with them when he sees what they do to their husbands. Im just saying if ur going to deal with someone married then u shud just keep it on a physical level and don’t try to build any type of relationship with them.
Big Moe
God is the creator and inventor of marriage. When you intrude on a marriage you are intruding on Gods’ turf. We reap what we so. Hopefully, one day a husband won’t kill you and then you be in God’s face answering to your actions…
kaushalya
Marriage is so pure and religious. to betray either the wife or the husband is a scrilage. We reap what we sow and I personally believe, men who cheat their fiancees or wives by going with other women , ARE NOT ME. They fear commitment and feel insecure about their own sexuallity.
kaushalya
Marriage is so pure and religious. to betray either the wife or the husband is a scrilage. We reap what we sow and I personally believe, men who cheat their fiancees or wives by going with other women , ARE NOT MEN. They fear commitment and feel insecure about their own sexuallity.