OMG!!!!! You are telling the truth!!!!!!!!

damn fly guy, u throwin body shots at da fellas. who side u on?

[…] Boom2Bust.com wrote an interesting post today onHere’s a quick excerpt The emails keep pouring in with many of my male readers longing to know the answer to the following universal mystery… “What do women like?” And while many of my love advice colleagues will be quick to spout out a list longer than an Amy Winehouse toxicology report, my answer has always remained the same: “I don’t know.” So why don’t I know? It’s simple. I choose not to. Since all women have vastly different tastes and types that they prefer in a mate, I personally think it’s easier to d […]

Yes he needs to call all of the trifling men out. For you to be mad, you must be one of them. great job Fly Guy. It’s about time we had a man out here with some common sense.

Let’s see… I RAN away from Mr. Tell Me Anything, Mr. Change My Diaper and Mr. Name Dropper (who were one in the same person) this summer NEVER EVER thought I’d meet three-in-one but daggonit they exist! , and I briefly met Mr. Pity Party this fall .. lol. Quite insightful comments and advice indeed. Keep it up!

3 in 1 huh? Wow that has to be a first. You need to track buddy down, and donate him to science so we can study him…lol

OMG!!! Fly Guy you must have been that proverbial fly on the wall of my life….lol

Keep spittin’ the truth brotha!!!!

And by the way, I think these men should be tagged like wildlife. Because it sure sounds like I met her 3 in 1….lol

I’m glad you felt me on this. Let’s see how it goes over when I flip the script next week, and deal with the types of women that men hate…lol

I will have no problem with that Fly Guy. Because truth wouldn’t be truth if you couldn’t flip it on both sides and see the same thing. Smile

Great article!!!!

I can’t wait to read next week’s article to see what you say about us women.

Clearly you have some clear insight. All these types of dudes get on my nerves!!!

I love this!!! Absolutely love it

Looking forward to next week. Now that we’ve been put on blast, it’s time for the women to get called out too

All very true! I would also add the embellisher. The man that always acts like he has more than he does. The one that takes you to a five star restaurant but is behind on his rent.

“Mr. Wanna ask you for some booty just met you yesterday and want to get mad when you say no like you wrong for having morals”… need to be on this list.

Not for nothing, but I think I’m like three of these dudes. That’s not good.

I met a Mr. Name Dropper..kept telling me the celebrities he hangs out with and how many expensive bottles he was poppin and all the fly jewelry…but there were 2 names he forgot to drop….mom and dad..because that’s who he was living with LOL

I met a Mr. Name Dropper too Raven. THEY IRK ME!!!!!!!

Ok. I just got out of a situation with a guy that was a combination of 1 and 5. See I am a good women. I am understanding and I am very supportive. This guy was working at Mellow Mushrooms. (which there is nothing wrong with that). but everyday He would come home and complain about how much he hated his job. Ok, so I ask why not find something else. This Guy tells me that he spent all of 2007 looking for a job and nobody would hire him because he had a felony charge.(booooo)thats a copout. So being the supportive women that I am I asked him to tell me his goals, where would he see himself in 5 years. He would say I don’t know I haven’t thought about it. Now this is a Man that will be 30 in two years and he has no clue of what he wants to do for the rest of his life. So me being patient I told him, maybe you should look into a trade. Nothing I mentioned worked. Anytime I would give him a suggestion he would say nobodies going to hire a felon. So word of advice Men. keep that sorry ass pity party to yourself. God created you and gave you the duty of Being a Man. So do it. Man up and take care of your business. Excuses are for Chumps.

This list is too true! It was crazy to see all the things that piss me off right here on one page, next time a man asks what I like I am going to send him here and tell him the opposite of this page! I have met several men in every category except the name dropper! Some people are more than one. please MAN UP…

OK FG I am adding more to your list.

7. Mr. “String You Along”
You meet somebody special do you best at convincing them they are ALL that… exactly what you are looking for… there is only one problem… YOU! Now you know this female is rare all the other females you dealing with are irregulars and they don’t got sh*t on this other girl… so what do you do? String them along until you think you tired of playing the field. But you do this for so long it ends up being years that rolled by not just a few weeks. And to you as long as you were never officially with the person they can’t get mad about all the B.S. you was doing. Here is the issue, by the time you come back the female even if they single probably don’t want your tired self.

8. Mr. “Show Da Money”
Ok why you gotta pull your money out, I mean everything you own just to buy a $5 drink and count it out like we don’t know its your whole paycheck and you just got paid. A real business man don’t walk around with all that money unless they going to buy something and here you are at the club at 1 am nothing open for you to buy anything… quit cashing your checks at the Drive Thru with Ockbar and get a real bank account and do your self a favor leave some money in it!

9. Mr. “Where Ya Kids”
Ok I know you got kids because you told me. So why you got so much free time and you aint never mentioned them again, what’s up with birthdays, x-mas, sports, school plays! Why in the world do you think somebody want to be with you and you don’t take care of your kids.. So what you think you going to get me knocked up and then disappear when the baby come… TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS… real women wont deal with you if you don’t… we already know what to expect! And another thing quit approaching women asking them how many kids they got in the first 2 minutes of the conversation, how about I have 2 kids do you have any? Every women you see don’t got kids stop asking “Whats your name, how many kids you got?”

10. Mr. “Where Ya Live”
Why you keep trying to come over my house? Why you gotta say “My mama live with me” knowing you live in her basement? Why you gotta say “I let my boys live with me”? If you don’t got your own place and you ashamed of it get that together before you talk to somebody with they stuff together…don’t start of lying in the end you will get caught up.

11. Mr. “Can You Have A Friend”
Ok you know who you are… she just told you she had a man. Do you respect that? Hell no.. you say well “Can You Have A Friend’? Come on now you already know you not trying to be any friend unless it’s the infamous friends with benefits!! And truth be told you not worried if she got a man cuz you got a woman wait…probably a wife sitting right at home! But you not going to mention that are you? And then you have the nerve to catch a sucka attack when your woman has a “friend” and only because you think about what you do with your so-called “friends”!

12. Mr. “Sideline”
While in this world we live many women play the role of “Sideline Chick”. If that’s the type female you dealing with then fine but here is the problem… LEARN who is the sideline type and who is not!!! Don’t come up to a real woman trying to treat her like the sideline ho!!!!

13. Mr. “I-N-D-E-P-D-E-N-T”
Ok you sing the song in the club you even play it in your car. You swear up and down you want one…who is it? That INDEPENDENT chick everybody claiming they trying to find. She’s the one got all her own stuff… house, car, career and money. And she’s the one that don’t need you for any monetary gain sounds perfect right???? WRONG… instead of trying to hook up with this type female you determine how independent she is and if she truly can hold her own with or without you then you opt to down grade to the needy chick, often called Reebok broad. This is the type chick that is needy and not only that she looking for you to buy something… she wants you to pay a bill, give her a place to stay, and help her out every week to the next payday. Every time you turn around something about to get cut off! Now why would you want that??? Maybe it’s because chicks that need you put up with your sh*t or better yet your ego makes you want to feel like a female needs you for something! Real women WANT you they don’t NEED you there is a difference. Real women are looking for a man who can bring something to the table so they can make moves together, who they can combine what they have together and not have less but have more than either could even imagine. Next time the song comes on TURN IT OFF… you need to be singing N-E-E-D-Y do you know what that means man no house, no car, no job.

14. Mr. “Thanks 4 Nothin”
Dag I been knowing you for a while now… here is what I don’t know what the fu*k is your purpose. Please stop wasting my time. What is it that you want from me? You haven’t done anything worth mentioning since I met you. You tell me I am all this and that like I am the best thing since sliced bread and while that may true you have no clue what to do with it! You know I am the sh*t, what you scared? Wish I could find one thing to thank you for but you are such a waste of time… THANKS FOR NOTHIN!

15. Mr. “Phone Booth”
Ok now you’re the type that stay on your cell phone, you constantly texting, calling, checking it for the time – you can’t live without your phone. So tell me this… how is it that you keep managing to miss calls, miss texts, battery dead, left it in the car and whatever other excuse you come up with! You act like I am calling a phone booth and if you ain’t in there at the very second you don’t get the message. It don’t take a few days to call back. And don’t you dare call back and say “Did you call me the other day” then go into how busy you was, nigg* do you know how long it take to send a text and say you busy! Get the fu*k outta here wit that! I have seen you look at the phone then put it down when its ringing so I know what you do when you ain’t trying to talk to somebody. And stop answering and talking in code or leaving the room MAN UP… if you need privacy try the phone booth!

16. Mr. “Hot Commodity”
Okay you doing good for yourself, seem to have your stuff together, might even have a nice body but let me let you in on a lil’ secret. You ain’t the only one! If all you can offer is d*ck females can get that all day everyday from everybody. Don’t get it twisted you might think you a “Hot Commodity” out here but please believe to a real woman a Hot Commodity is a man who handles his biz, holding it down, making moves, and only need one thing to make his life complete 1 BAD A$$ B*TCH… to be on his team and she will step to the plate like “Partna let me UPGRADE YA!!!!”

17. Mr. “Bust it Baby”
Yeah we all the know the song, seems that’s its becoming the playa anthem. You stacking up on these bust it babies like they worth something… they about as good as Delta stock (you check the #’s)… On top of that you really need to get with one chick and settle down that way she the only one that gotta FAKE it! Oh you know what I am talking about… quit spreading all that around like you doing something, you average (if that). You ain’t heard no complaints because you ain’t took her to that level, and while you aint heard complaints most of ya’ll aint heard a compliment either… that only means one thing…she done had better! Now bust one on that!

18. Mr. “Gotta Get Some Right Away”
Look if you first try to introduce yourself by speaking of your skills in the bedroom or you constantly trying to come over late at night or even calling/texting late at night trying to get something poppin, GET REAL… WAKE UP women choose who they want to get with and if they didn’t take you up on your first, second or 500th offer you can “get some right away” from somebody else

The doors of the church are now open. Is there one? ;-)

So Fly Guy are you going to add more???