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Did He Play Me?
Dear Fly Guy,
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years now, and for the most part things have been great. In my heart, I really believe that he’s the one for me. Recently we had a talk about marriage, and I told him that I wanted us to be engaged by October. Instead of saying anything, he just smiled, kissed me passionately on the forehead, and turned our discussion into a heated love-making session. While I enjoyed the sex, I’m starting to believe he did that just to avoid our talk about marriage. What do you think? Was that that on purpose, or was he so turned on by the thought of us getting married that he wanted me physically? Please respond to this, as I’d like your opinion before I bring it up again.
Emily
Dear Emily,
I have both good and bad news for you. The bad news is that your boyfriend was definitely trying to avoid any talk of marriage. In fact, I haven’t seen something that slick since Jermaine Jackson left his pillow case on the family tour bus. So that’s the bad news…
The good news is that if your boyfriend keeps it up, he may actually have a bright future as an actor…or a politician. All jokes aside though, you obviously misjudged how serious he was about your relationship. If I were you, I wouldn’t bring it up at all. In fact, I would take a subtle step back, and let your silence and distance do all of the talking. Confronting him may only push him away….but your silence protest should force him to either step up or step away. If he chooses the latter, then he wasn’t the man for you in the first place. I hope this helps.
The Fly Guy
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DAYYUUUUMMMMM!!!!!!!! YOU GOT PLAYYYYEEEEEDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jai
I agree with Fly Guy. You need to fall back girl. He really tried to play you, even though I know the sex was probably good. LMAO
The Fly Guy
At this point, it doesn’t matter if she did or didn’t get played. What’s done is done…now the ball is in Emily’s court.
Tammy
If this is the way he starts out, using sex to nullify your feelings, he will continue this tactic thru out the marriage. Run Girl and don’t look back.
From the Heart!!!
Iceykohnn
Well, maybe he didn’t know how to address his feeling and respect your wishes at that time. Personally I would have wondered what was so special about that month in particular. Be patient, and if you decide to ask the question again don’t be so specific and rushed. What is the difference between now and 2 years from now? Enjoy what you have. IMHO.