He Said He Changed

Jan 2nd, 2008 | Author: admin | Category: Fly Letters
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Dear Fly Guy,

I’m so confused right now. I have never experienced hurt like I did with my last boyfriend. He broke my heart, destroyed my faith in men, and robbed me of my self esteem. Now that I’ve finally started to heal, here he comes trying to make things right with me. He has apologized for all of the pain that he caused, and is now trying to show that he is a better man. What should I do? Should I listen to him and give him another chance? What do you think?

LaRhonda

Dear LaRhonda,

I feel as if we must seek a higher power in order to get the answer that you need. So if you have your bible, turn with me to the Book of Raymond. It is here that the divine Prophet Usher provides us with an accurate roadmap to handle a situation like this…

Now that your ex-boyfriend has made his “Confessions,” it is perfectly normal for you to still be upset, and need some time to let it “Burn.” Just don’t let him try to rush you into making a decision. This time around you need to take it “Nice and Slow.” In fact, you should tell him that “U Don’t Have To Call,” because you’ll contact him when you’re ready to talk.

If over time, he’s able to prove that he’s being sincere, then by all means tell him “Yeah.” But if not, then let him know that “U Remind Me” of the same guy that broke my heart the first time, and decline his offer. I hope this helps. Let the church say Amen.

The Fly Guy

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  • tonya

    wow. That’s all I can say…lol. That was funny, but on point!!!!

  • Jamezz

    Amen!!!

    and if you give him a chance..do not let it get physical. If he stays around he might be on the road to bringing you some grown and sexy that can last.

  • http://YahooMail Tammy

    Only time will tell. We all need second chances. But it’s wasted if we don’t understand why heck we screwed up in the first. Ask him to take sometime and get a clear understanding of himself and then maybe he can understand and love you the right way this time. Oh, and FlyGuy you are bananas…lol

  • Iceykohnn

    I think a more important question is, “How much has LaRhonda developed so that her security, faith in others, state of her heart, and self-esteem can’t be robbed by this man or any other man ever again?” This guy won’t be a threat worth asking about if you take a lil while to solidify your love for yourself and appreciate your “best” you.