Speaking on behalf of all men, we can at times over think our approach with women. We always want to make the right moves, say the right things, and do whatever it takes to get in the good graces of a woman…especially when we first meet her. But according to Boyz II Men, there’s no reason to stress those encounters, because a woman has already made up in her mind how far she’s willing to go with you. Your only job is to not mess things up. So just be yourself, and let the chips fall where they may. Check out, “Gonna Have,” this week’s Fly Lyrics Feature.

Sometimes it takes a while for you to appreciate what you have. It’s all a part of growing up I guess. At a certain point though, you can’t continue to lean on your youth as an excuse for failing at relationships. You will eventually have to grow up if you ever want a real shot at experiencing a lasting partnership with someone. Fergie agrees wholeheartedly and explains as much in “Finally,” this week’s Fly Lyrics Feature.

“It’s all my fault.”

Let’s face it. When a relationship falls apart, that’s not a phrase that is said very much. Oftentimes, it’s easier to blame the other person for the love growing cold. R&B singer Tank took a different approach though, and sincerely expressed where he went wrong on “The Reason Why,” this week’s Fly Lyrics Feature.

“I want to be loved so badly.”

Deep down, many of us are dictated by our internal desire to be loved the right way. In fact, such an inner-longing can at times negatively affect our judgement when it comes to making a commitment. Some of us want to prove so badly to the world that we can not only sustain a meaningful relationship, but that the failures of the past were just that…things of the past. Keyshia Cole can relate, and poignantly expresses those sentiments on, “Heaven Sent,” this week’s Fly Lyrics feature.