Why won’t you call me back? From a guy’s perspective, we probably hear that question more often than Bobby Brown gets read his rights. And while Bobby’s behavior and criminal record probably have no rhyme or reason, the psychology behind a guy not calling you back most certainly does. Don’t believe me? Well check out [...]

When things go wrong in a relationship, it’s easy to search for others to blame. It seems that passing the responsibility off on someone or something else makes it easier to get past the disappointment. But what if your heart tells you something different? What if deep down inside, you know that it was all your fault? Well Stevie Wonder could definitely relate when he wrote “Blame It On the Sun,” this week’s Fly Lyrics Feature.

Back in 1998, Angela Bassett made it okay for a black woman to get her groove back. Fast forward to nine years later and the trend of older women dating younger men has become more popular than white celebrities adopting children from Africa. If you’ve finally grown tired of sitting on the sidelines while the [...]

Is there a soulmate out there for each and every one of us? It’s a question that I’ve found myself contemplating from time to time, and I still don’t know if I have a concrete answer. So when I first heard Natasha Bedingfield’s “Soulmate,” I was instantly drawn to her heartfelt dismay at not having [...]

I heard you made a great first impression last night. But so did Milli Vanilli with “Blame It On The Rain.” And just like their career was eventually ruined by faking the funk, so too can your chances at a follow-up date be destroyed by a bad first phone call. That’s why I’ve decided to [...]