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What’s His Problem?

By The Fly Guy ⋅ April 12, 2007

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Dear Fly Guy,

I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past two years, and he is just so hard to talk to. It seems like no matter what we are talking about, he just doesn’t want to be serious. He also never wants to talk about our future. When I try to ask him how he feels about things, he always just nonchalantly says that, “He cares.” You would be surprised at how much I do for him. I cook for him when he’s at my house, loan him money when he needs it, and do all of the other things that a great girlfriend should do. But he never wants to hold me, talk to me, or really spend any time with me. The only time that I really get to see him is on the weekends, and that’s only for a few hours before he says that he has to go back to work. Even when we have sex, (which isn’t very often,) he gets up and leaves shortly after we finish. I just don’t understand what’s gotten into him. Can you help me?

K. Walker

Dear K. Walker,

I hate to be the one to break this to you, but I’d rather you hear this now than later. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to be with you anymore. In fact, I haven’t seen that much neglect since Britney Spears gave birth to her second child. The question that remains is why would you put up with someone treating you so poorly? You can’t possibly be happy, and if you are then you’ve never really had the privilege of being properly loved by a man.

I always advise people to find someone that’s willing to work just as hard as they are at making the relationship work. What he’s doing is not trying. He’s simply giving you the bare minimum to keep you pacified (sounds like he may have a future in politics.) On a serious note though, you obviously deserve so much better. In the end, I’d like you to follow the same advice I gave Sisqo when he was trying to make a follow up to the “Thong Song.” I told him to quit while he was ahead. And so should you.

The Fly Guy

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