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Getting Her Attention
Dear Fly Guy,
There is this girl that I tend to always bump into out on the networking scene. She has got to be the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life. Most men shy away from even approaching her and I’ve kind of followed suit. She just seems too beautiful to ever be interested in me or anyone else regular for that matter. What is your take on this, and how can I gain the confidence to get her to notice me. Thanks.
Darnell
Dear Darnell,
Your first mistake is not believing in yourself. In fact, I haven’t seen someone doubt themselves this much since they asked Paula Abdul to sing the Star Spangled Banner before the Super Bowl (thankfully, she declined.) Listen, if you don’t take a chance and approach her, you’ll always find yourself operating with a “what if” sort of mentality. Here’s my suggestion.
Next time you bump into her, walk up with confidence and simply ask her name. Nothing too fancy…just her name. Many times when we attempt to meet new people, we overcomplicate things by trying to be too cool. So don’t give your best Rico Suave voice or compliment her for having the sexiest elbows in the room. Just be yourself. She’ll appreciate the naturalness of your approach, and may even be open to a conversation with you. If she acts rude and brushes you aside like Bush does the concerns of the country, then maybe she wasn’t for you in the first place. But you’ll never know until you try. Good luck.
The Fly Guy
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Iceykohnn
SMILE, man. Nothing says,”I got the world on a string, wrapped around my finger” like someone who smiles genuinely when they meet you. People gravitate toward the ones who look like they have got it all figured out, like this ain’t nothing but a thang. If you introduce yourself with a smile, take her hand in greeting, and ask her a question that you are generally interested in having a conversation about, i.e. want her opinion on, you will elevate heads above all the other chumps in the place who forget that she digests her food like errbody else. And remember, you will make HER day by speaking to her, your happiness will be just a by-product of meeting a nice person and having a great convo. Ya dig?