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Am I Too Jealous?
Dear Fly Guy,
I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, which to me is a bit unnerving. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I just really can’t stand for her to be around other men, especially when I’m certain they find her attractive. Is there something wrong with me, or is my subconscious trying to tell me something about her? What do you think?
Travis W.
Dear Travis,
You don’t need my help to trust your wife. It’s something that should come naturally, especially since you’ve already exchanged vows and crowned yourself as the man of her dreams. If you listen to yourself, you’d actually find that your reasoning is more flawed than the NYPD’s standard for necessary force. Listen…any guy in their right mind would love other men to admire their wife. That reflects back favorably on you, because you actually won her heart…not anyone else. So stop giving your wife grief for being beautiful, or for having other men admire her. If you don’t get your jealousy in check, you’re going to find yourself alone…just like Ice Cube did midway through the screening of his new movie, Are We Done Yet. I hope you can get it together before it’s too late. Take care.
The Fly Guy
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Jealousy usually betrays the thought that you are not getting what you want from that person. You may have her love, her heart, her attention, her affection, but if she don’t laugh with you like she does with a co-worker, or dance with you like she does to her favorite video, anything to make you feel left out or like you are missing something, you can easily get jealous. Identify what you lose when other men admire her, and do something about it. Do you think they can take her from you? Check your estimation of your self. Does she revel in their attention? Show her more attention when you get the chance. Flip the script. When you take her out, be obvious in a tactful way that she is yours. After you open the door for her, and take her coat, kiss her hand then her shoulder and then behind her ear. Whisper private jokes in her ear to keep her laughing. Men will definitely pay attention to a beautiful woman when she is pleased, because they shine like the sun. But the difference is, and this is where the magic happens, she is pleased for a reason, and that my friend, is YOU.