Volume 27- I Could Just Hurt You

So here’s the deal. You’ve been in this relationship for a little while now, and things seem to be going fairly well. But every full moon, it seems like your significant other does something stupid that really irritates you to no end. It could be something as immoral as stealing cable from the orphanage next [...]

Fly Lyrics: Norah Jones’ “Cold Cold Heart”

How many times has hurt from a previous relationship dictated how trusting you were in your present one? And no matter what the new person did or said, you were thoroughly convinced they were up to no good. It happens on a daily basis. So whether you’re the doubter or the one that’s being doubted, [...]

Getting Her Attention

Dear Fly Guy,

There is this girl that I tend to always bump into out on the networking scene. She has got to be the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life. Most men shy away from even approaching her and I’ve kind of followed suit. She just seems too beautiful to ever be interested in me or anyone else regular for that matter. What is your take on this, and how can I gain the confidence to get her to notice me. Thanks.

10 Tips To Win Back Your Ex

You couldn’t stop tossing and turning last night. Your thoughts on this night, just like the many nights before, were filled with memories of the one that got away. Well maybe it’s time you began to fight for the one that still sets your soul on fire.

Fly Lyrics: Ne-Yo’s “Because of You”

No one wants to admit being addicted to another person. But as intoxicating a drug as love can be, it’s bound to happen. Singer/songwriter Ne-Yo discusses this very topic in his latest single, “Because of You,” this week’s Fly Lyrics Feature.

Am I Too Jealous?

Dear Fly Guy,
I need help with trusting my wife. I know that she loves me and regards me as the man of her dreams, but every time we get around other men, I’m afraid she’s looking at them. She’s a very beautiful woman, and commands a great amount of attention whenever she enters a room, [...]

Volume 26- Do Men Know How To Love?

Today’s edition of the Fly Guy Chronicles asks a simple but probing question. Do men know how to love? And while that may seem a bit broad, I would still contend that there are some universal factors that do attribute to a large majority of the male population’s inability to properly love someone. Some men [...]

Why I’m Single

When I run into beautiful, successful people who just happen to be single, it always fascinates me (hey, I study love for a living.) So I often find myself wondering, “Why in the world are they single?” As I delve deeper into the psychology behind it all, the answers I get range from, “Well I’m way too focused right now,” all the way to “I can’t trust anyone with my money.”

Fly Lyrics: Boyz II Men’s “I Miss You”

When the dust settles after a failed relationship, the hardest thing can be to admit having walked away too soon. Such is the case in this week’s Fly Lyrics feature, “I Miss You.” Through these words, the artist admits the mistake, and puts forth a noble effort to reclaim lost love. Enjoy.

What’s His Problem?

Dear Fly Guy,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past two years, and he is just so hard to talk to. It seems like no matter what we are talking about, he just doesn’t want to be serious. He also never wants to talk about our future. When I try to ask him how he [...]