A friend recently shared your column with me, and I instantly fell in love with it. Your advice is funny, on point, and you don’t come off too preachy. I just wanted to ask you about a response you gave to one of your readers in Volume 14. You said you didn’t like the fact that people often embrace being regular. I agree with you, but when I try to make it known that I am exceptional, men seemed to be scared away by my success. It makes me believe that there is a double standard, where men can brag about their accomplishments, but women are supposed to just smile, be pretty, and wait for some man to take care of them. If that’s what has become of the dating world, then I want no part of it. What is your take on this? Am I making sense, or do I just come across as angry like every other professional woman that deals with this. By the way, I ran across your profile on Myspace, and you really are a hottie! If your advice doesn’t help me find someone, then maybe I could date you. I’m a driven, college-educated professional that’s currently doing big things. So what do you say? If not, it was worth a shot.