Dear Fly Guy, I had an incident with my girlfriend the other day, and I was hoping you could help me out. We have arguments from time to time, but it seems like she has become extremely violent lately. She even hit me when our discussion became heated while at a restaurant last week. What [...]

As I’m writing this, I’m peacefully soaring 20,000 feet in the air on a cross-country trip to Los Angeles. My iPod was just getting warmed up for an extensive workout, when I began to drift into this deep contemplative state…it’s the corner of my mind where only I have access. For the sake of transparency, I usually share everything, but this is my one secret hideaway.

Now that you’ve made it through the first two phases of my cheating seminar, a decision must now be made. But before you decided whether to stay or leave, you must ask yourself the following four questions… 1. What If There Was No Cheating? If you’ve exhausted all possible avenues only to discover no cheating [...]

Dear Fly Guy, I hope this letter finds you in good spirits, because I really need to hear back from you. You’ve been focusing on cheating the last couple of weeks, and I wanted to get your input on my situation. My husband and I have been married for the past ten years, and for [...]

I attended my first baby shower last weekend, and I have to say it was the most unconventional event I’ve ever attended (I see you Danielle.) Anyway, before I was rudely interrupted by my own shoutout, I was telling you about the baby shower. There were more men there than women, and playoff football and spades were in high demand (I told you it was unconventional.)

Dear Fly Guy, I really enjoyed last week’s column on cheating. It really hit home, so I’m hoping you can help me too. I’ve been with my girlfriend for quite some time, but discovered that she was cheating on me a few months back. It really hurt, but I decided to forgive her and work [...]

Believe it or not, I wrecked my car today. There’s no need to be alarmed; it was my fault. I was too busy looking at this accident in my rearview mirror, and forgot to pay attention to what was in front of me. The next thing I know, I’m slamming into the back of this raggedy white pickup truck. Looking back on it all, I’m beginning to realize how my mistake parallels common relationship behavior.

Have you ever been in a public bathroom and just took a quick moment to observe the writing on the wall? (I mean seriously, who is Big Daddy D, and why does he want everyone to know that he hangs out in the mall bathroom?) But Big Daddy D aside, there’s plenty of symbolism in [...]

Dear Fly Guy, I’ve been married for 12 years, and have two beautiful children with my husband. A few years ago, he took a one-week vacation by himself to Paris. When he returned, he told me that he had been with other women and needed to be tested for STDs. He broke my heart, but [...]