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Where Are The Real Men?

By The Fly Guy ⋅ December 3, 2006

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Dear Fly Guy,

I know that you are the man to come to! I’ve got a problem. What happened to all of the gentlemen?!?!?! I mean it has been so long since I’ve dated a guy that treated me with respect. All I seem to get is a bunch of lame a$$ cats that wanna hit it, get head, spend the night and be controlling while bringing nothing to the table. I’m plain sick of it, and in a minute I’m about to just stop dating men all together. I love’em but I can’t help it….the bad ones out there are really KILLIN it yo! I haven’t had sex in months because I refuse to give it up to these stupid buttheads out here! And I am the easiest chick to get along with. I’m sweet, approachable, smart, dress nice, have a car, my own spot, and a career. I mean you would think I could at least get a decent date! Has it now become too much to ask to be taken out by a decent brother?

Danielle

Dear Danielle,

I hate to ask you this, but where are you shopping for your men at? It sounds to me like you need to trade in those Walmart purchases, and move on up to Saks. From the way you describe it, you’ve made some terrible dating decisions in the past. I honestly haven’t seen a man that clueless about something since that time I asked Mike Tyson to write his name in cursive. But don’t worry, we’ll get the situation straightened out…even if we couldn’t save Mike. This one’s dedicated to him.

I ultimately feel like people feed off of the energy that you exude. So if you come off like someone that can be used and abused, then that’s what they’ll do. But if an aura of confidence surrounds you, then nine times out of ten, that respect that you’re seeking from the men you date will be given to you.

If you don’t believe me, watch Oprah Winfrey as Sofia in the Color Purple. There was nothing cute about her, but the confidence she had in herself made Harpo fall in love. There’s nothing sexier than a confident women…this point was driven home when she told Celie, “I love Harpo…God knows I do. But I’ll kill’em dead before I let him beat me.”

I miss big Oprah…she taught us so much about life and love. So just channel your inner big Oprah, and I’m sure you’ll find the man of your dreams. Trust me. I’m always right some of the time.

The Fly Guy

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