I need your help, because I’ve been going through this same relationship issue for the past two years. I caught my girlfriend at the time cheating on me, so we broke up. Now that I’ve finally healed enough to move on, she has decided to show back up and disrupt my life again. This woman knows just what buttons to push and exactly how to make me unhappy. She calls me all the time, killing me with kindness by telling me how good of a man I am, only to turn back around and tear me down by letting me know all of my flaws that in her eyes will leave me old and lonely. I have to admit; I love and hate this woman very deeply. I recently found a new woman that I’m interested in, and I’m finally ready to move on. But I am so sick of the drama with my ex. What can I do to stop her influence over me so I can move on with my new relationship?