Simple Math For Understanding Women
    Aug 31st, 2010 | 7 Comments | Fly Foolishness
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    I would never profess myself to be a mathematician, so I’ll just leave that to the experts. However, a friend recently sent me an email that made the mathematical wheels start turning in my head. Will the following post get me in trouble for posting? Perhaps … but there was no way that I was going to take the safe way out and not post this.

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    Name: Wale Folarin

    City: Washington D.C.

    Follow Him: Twitter.com/wale

    His Philosophy On Life: We should always be learning from each other. I think that my life experiences should help the next man, and vice versa. That’s why people make movies and biographies, because we should always be learning from the next person’s experiences.

    His Philosophy On Love:     It’s important to be proactive. When men and women have to be asked to do something it takes away from the relationship exponentially. Forget-me-nots are what fuel the relationships to me. It’s like putting gas in your car before it gets to E. It’s like the soil or how you nurture the relationship.

Are There Any Real Women Left?
Are There Any Real Women Left?

“All I want is a man that’s real.” As the words left her mouth, it was almost as if I could hear a chorus of women standing behind her, ready to take up her cause. This stance is nothing new though. Ask any woman to describe what she desires in a man, and more often than not, adjectives like real and honest will somehow make their way into the conversation.

May 27th, 2010 | 52 Comments | Featured

Coping With The STD Blues

Coping With The STD Blues

Dear Fly Guy, I just found out that I have an STD. I have been with the same man for 2 years in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I have not been with anyone else, even during the 4-month period that he had broken up with me. He is denying it, telling me I gave it to him.

Aug 27th, 2010 | 1 Comment | Fly Letters
The Long Journey Back To You

The Long Journey Back To You

*Deep breath*This is the first time in quite some time that I’ve attempted to put pen to pad, and I have to admit … I’m a little anxious to see how this turns out. Over the past few weeks, I’ve received emails, tweets and Facebook posts all asking the same question: “Fly Guy, when are you going to write again?”

Aug 26th, 2010 | 7 Comments | Fly Perspectives
Lil Jon Talks Sex Therapy

Lil Jon Talks Sex Therapy

So I have to admit that I found myself in an interesting situation a few days ago. I was spending some quality time with a potential … (potential what, I’m not sure of yet) … but anyway, we were spending time together, and she asked me to play some music to “set the mood.”

Jul 14th, 2010 | 4 Comments | Fly Guy TV
Don’t Let Your Woman Change For You

Don’t Let Your Woman Change For You

Attention men: Now you may not want to hear this, but there are women out here currently faking the funk with you. And no, I’m not talking about orgasms (although that actually does apply to some of you.) What I’m actually referring to is a woman that will pretend as if she’s into one of your hobbies just so she can come off as super cool. Scandalous, I know.

Jul 6th, 2010 | 5 Comments | Fly Features
My Woman Doesn’t Compromise

My Woman Doesn’t Compromise

Dear Fly Guy, I need some relationship advice. Most women give men a hard time when it comes to committing to them, but I’m the exact opposite. When I commit to a woman, she has my heart forever. My problem is that my loyalty may be causing me to give my woman more leeway than she probably deserves.

Jul 6th, 2010 | 4 Comments | Fly Letters
A Quick Guide To Handling A Break Up

A Quick Guide To Handling A Break Up

I’ll be the first one to admit this shortcoming: break ups make me uneasy. There’s just something about the giving and receiving of bad relationship news that doesn’t sit well with me. I mean, think about it; is there really another conversation that’s more uncomfortable? I can’t think of a single one.

Jul 6th, 2010 | 3 Comments | The Chronicles
Approaching A Woman…When I’m A Woman

Approaching A Woman…When I’m A Woman

Hey Fly Guy, I wanted to know how would you go about asking out a person of the same sex. I have a coworker who is female and I swear she is one of the baddest females I’ve ever seen in LA. I notice her noticing me sometimes, but I’m thinking maybe it’s all in my head. Got any advice?

Jun 30th, 2010 | 2 Comments | Fly Letters
Understanding A Man’s Silence

Understanding A Man’s Silence

“Blessed quietness … holy quietness … what assurance, in my soul.” I can still hear my mother and grandmother singing that song back in the day when church services seemed to last ALL DAY. The song—which I’m sure is still being sang somewhere—speaks to the beauty of silence in the midst of chaos, and how it allows you the opportunity to hear God’s voice.

Jun 30th, 2010 | 5 Comments | Fly Features